SilverSonnet
Senior Don Juan
Hey, my name is Ben, I'm 14 and from the UK. I've been meaning to make one of these for awhile, but I was afraid I couldn't keep up with it, or that I would look back and see I haven't done much. Well, it's time to grab my nuts and do it anyway. Hope you all help me along, and provide me with any advice.
I'll post regularly with updates to my objectives and how I am achieving them. Positive feedback is welcomed and definitely desired. Thanks to all the people who post, and wish me luck!
MAJOR OBJECTIVES:
BE AN ALPHA MALE & MAN OF CLASS
Throughout my life, I've always been pretty submissive, and losing arguments, fights and disputes. I usually cave in to my friends, and do what they want to do instead of what I want. I really want to change this and be powerful, popular and respected.
LEARN TO COMMAND RESPECT FROM PEOPLE
This links in with the objective above, but I want respect from people and to respect people. People seem to walk over me, and I believe that I come across as a weak person, who cant stand up for myself, verbally or physically. I want respect and recognition from people, and I also want to learn to respect people and not bully and tease people, for my personal enjoyment, as I do not enjoy making fun of people for no reason. I think that it is peer pressure or because i find that my own life sucks pretty bad, that I bully others to make my life seem a little better, so this HAS to change.
BE MORE SOCIAL/ GO OUT MORE OFTEN
I want to be able to go out about 4-5 times a week doing things with lots of friends, meeting women, and new friends alike. Right now, I hardly ever go out, I come home and sit down and come onto my laptop and wonder why my life sucks. I want to change this and be seen as a social animal!
TONE MY BODY
I have a workout routine (made by WesCottII, cheers mate) and I want to use it to work out 3 times a week, Monday, Wednesday and Friday. I don't want to be the loser kid who has no muscles and just bone and flab. I weigh about 133 lbs (or 10 stone 5) and as soon as I hit 16, I plan to join a Gym.
APPROACH WOMEN
I always chicken out when it comes to women, I make friends easily with them, but attracting them? I suck! In year 9 of secondary school, I hit on 30-40 women, and got rejected by ALL of them, so rejection doesn't phase me much anymore, but I'd prefer to have the opposite effect and actually get the women I plan to learn to approach women first, talk to them, make them laugh and have fun, then I'll learn to get numbers, kiss closes, and when Im a bit older(16/17) F' closes.
SECONDARY OBJECTIVES:
RATION MY WORDS(DON’T TALK SO MUCH)
I remember reading in the 48 Laws of Power that you should always say less than necessary. People find me annoying because I tend to jabber on and I make awfully lame jokes and say random stupid sh!t. So, I am hoping this will make me less annoying, and look and be more powerful..
Law 4: Always Say Less than Necessary
When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open- ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.
CLEAR MY SKIN
I have had acne on my face and arms now, for about 2-3 years now, and this is something I really want to change. I recently bought a range of clearasil spot-fighting products, so I'll let you know how it goes. I also purchased a moisturizer by Nivea, which should keep my skin soft and looking good.
BE WITTIER AND FUNNIER
I've always made lame jokes, and awful quips, this is something I NEED to change, for me and for other people. When I make a joke, people want to kill themselves, honestly, I have the joke-telling capacity of a mentally retarded 2 year old, it's horrible. (WesCottII is awfully funny and sarcastic, so to be funnier and wittier than he is, is my extreme goal, watch your back Tom)
FUTURE/SMALL OBJECTIVES
GET A TAN
I used to have a lovely dark tan, and that's something I want back, as I hate being pale and white. I could complete this objective by going to a tanning salon(if Im old enough), sunbathing(I'll be lucky in England ) or fake tan which I am loathing to use as it usually turns out turning people ORANGE:crazy: so no go right now.
LEARN TO KISS
I dont know what my kissing capabilities are right now, but I think that only practice will help me, so when I start pulling those birds, this should be improving as well. Tomatoes and anybody else I've seen posting things about this, gimme some help here lads
REVISE OFTEN
I'm slacking off in lessons, and putting coursework to one side, if I dont pull my socks up I'm going to fail my GCSE's. I need to set an hour a day for revision and homework. I think this is going to be the hardest objective as I have trouble concentrating(everyone has always said I find it hard to keep focussed) but I'm willing to put everything I have into improving my life and myself.
GET BETTER AT PLAYING RUGBY
Everybody in my team has said I'm ultra crap, so it's time to be the best
I want to be a really good left winger, and hopefully, if I bulk up with working out, get a forward position(like Tom, you aggressive git) and start being able to crush people(being my job)
So, there they are. My goals, dreams and objectives. Help me out here lads, I'm gonna need it. So, let's get to it, and improve my life one step at a time.
Peace out
Ben
I'll post regularly with updates to my objectives and how I am achieving them. Positive feedback is welcomed and definitely desired. Thanks to all the people who post, and wish me luck!
MAJOR OBJECTIVES:
BE AN ALPHA MALE & MAN OF CLASS
Throughout my life, I've always been pretty submissive, and losing arguments, fights and disputes. I usually cave in to my friends, and do what they want to do instead of what I want. I really want to change this and be powerful, popular and respected.
LEARN TO COMMAND RESPECT FROM PEOPLE
This links in with the objective above, but I want respect from people and to respect people. People seem to walk over me, and I believe that I come across as a weak person, who cant stand up for myself, verbally or physically. I want respect and recognition from people, and I also want to learn to respect people and not bully and tease people, for my personal enjoyment, as I do not enjoy making fun of people for no reason. I think that it is peer pressure or because i find that my own life sucks pretty bad, that I bully others to make my life seem a little better, so this HAS to change.
BE MORE SOCIAL/ GO OUT MORE OFTEN
I want to be able to go out about 4-5 times a week doing things with lots of friends, meeting women, and new friends alike. Right now, I hardly ever go out, I come home and sit down and come onto my laptop and wonder why my life sucks. I want to change this and be seen as a social animal!
TONE MY BODY
I have a workout routine (made by WesCottII, cheers mate) and I want to use it to work out 3 times a week, Monday, Wednesday and Friday. I don't want to be the loser kid who has no muscles and just bone and flab. I weigh about 133 lbs (or 10 stone 5) and as soon as I hit 16, I plan to join a Gym.
APPROACH WOMEN
I always chicken out when it comes to women, I make friends easily with them, but attracting them? I suck! In year 9 of secondary school, I hit on 30-40 women, and got rejected by ALL of them, so rejection doesn't phase me much anymore, but I'd prefer to have the opposite effect and actually get the women
I plan to learn to approach women first, talk to them, make them laugh and have fun, then I'll learn to get numbers, kiss closes, and when Im a bit older(16/17) F' closes.SECONDARY OBJECTIVES:
RATION MY WORDS(DON’T TALK SO MUCH)
I remember reading in the 48 Laws of Power that you should always say less than necessary. People find me annoying because I tend to jabber on and I make awfully lame jokes and say random stupid sh!t. So, I am hoping this will make me less annoying, and look and be more powerful..
Law 4: Always Say Less than Necessary
When you are trying to impress people with words, the more you say, the more common you appear, and the less in control. Even if you are saying something banal, it will seem original if you make it vague, open- ended, and sphinxlike. Powerful people impress and intimidate by saying less. The more you say, the more likely you are to say something foolish.
CLEAR MY SKIN
I have had acne on my face and arms now, for about 2-3 years now, and this is something I really want to change. I recently bought a range of clearasil spot-fighting products, so I'll let you know how it goes. I also purchased a moisturizer by Nivea, which should keep my skin soft and looking good.
BE WITTIER AND FUNNIER
I've always made lame jokes, and awful quips, this is something I NEED to change, for me and for other people. When I make a joke, people want to kill themselves, honestly, I have the joke-telling capacity of a mentally retarded 2 year old, it's horrible. (WesCottII is awfully funny and sarcastic, so to be funnier and wittier than he is, is my extreme goal, watch your back Tom
)FUTURE/SMALL OBJECTIVES
GET A TAN
I used to have a lovely dark tan, and that's something I want back, as I hate being pale and white. I could complete this objective by going to a tanning salon(if Im old enough), sunbathing(I'll be lucky in England
) or fake tan which I am loathing to use as it usually turns out turning people ORANGE:crazy: so no go right now.LEARN TO KISS
I dont know what my kissing capabilities are right now, but I think that only practice will help me, so when I start pulling those birds, this should be improving as well. Tomatoes and anybody else I've seen posting things about this, gimme some help here lads
REVISE OFTEN
I'm slacking off in lessons, and putting coursework to one side, if I dont pull my socks up I'm going to fail my GCSE's. I need to set an hour a day for revision and homework. I think this is going to be the hardest objective as I have trouble concentrating(everyone has always said I find it hard to keep focussed) but I'm willing to put everything I have into improving my life and myself.
GET BETTER AT PLAYING RUGBY
Everybody in my team has said I'm ultra crap, so it's time to be the best
I want to be a really good left winger, and hopefully, if I bulk up with working out, get a forward position(like Tom, you aggressive git) and start being able to crush people(being my job
) So, there they are. My goals, dreams and objectives. Help me out here lads, I'm gonna need it. So, let's get to it, and improve my life one step at a time.
Peace out
Ben
