“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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My second though.. this might require more skilled than planned..

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So I thought gaming a new chick would be an easy catch. Apparently not. She was digging it at first, and seemed interested. Maybe I asked too many questions and came off AFC.. but after awhile, she was kinda just giving me one word answers, and kind of shutting the conversation down. I still tried to make it work, being the kind of conversationalist I am.. perhaps it made it worse I don't know. She said she didn't have many friends, so I invited her to chill with me and my buddies, and she said she "might take me up on that offer". So I don't know. She must had gotten the sense I was hitting on her because she mentions the fact she likes somebody right now. She is kinda emo, so I think she is in one of those retarded puppy-love-crush stages.. gah, I hate chicks like that. But this chick is cute.. how can I convert her interest over to me? Without seeming so damn AFC.. she's giving me really mixed signals right now. This is requiring more game than I had originally planned..
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Can you post the convo and any other details about what happened?
 

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She told you she likes someone else. But she is giving you signals. I'd translate that as her thinking you are a second option or trying to make you work hard for her.

**** that!

Back off. Don't contact for a week or so. If she calls don't answer.

If you keep expending energy to pull her in she will just have contempt for you. Push her away a bit.

She's not earning your attention by just giving you one word answers. She's definately not earning the right to hang with your crew.

Make her work a bit for your attention and teach her that she's gotta show you some respect.

If she doesn't play then you know its not meant to be.
JJ
 

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Jay Jay said:
She told you she likes someone else. But she is giving you signals. I'd translate that as her thinking you are a second option or trying to make you work hard for her.

**** that!

Back off. Don't contact for a week or so. If she calls don't answer.

If you keep expending energy to pull her in she will just have contempt for you. Push her away a bit.

She's not earning your attention by just giving you one word answers. She's definately not earning the right to hang with your crew.

Make her work a bit for your attention and teach her that she's gotta show you some respect.

If she doesn't play then you know its not meant to be.
JJ

Exactly. JJ is giving you the correct advice.
 

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Thanks JJ, good advice. I'll put it to use.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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