So I thought gaming a new chick would be an easy catch. Apparently not. She was digging it at first, and seemed interested. Maybe I asked too many questions and came off AFC.. but after awhile, she was kinda just giving me one word answers, and kind of shutting the conversation down. I still tried to make it work, being the kind of conversationalist I am.. perhaps it made it worse I don't know. She said she didn't have many friends, so I invited her to chill with me and my buddies, and she said she "might take me up on that offer". So I don't know. She must had gotten the sense I was hitting on her because she mentions the fact she likes somebody right now. She is kinda emo, so I think she is in one of those retarded puppy-love-crush stages.. gah, I hate chicks like that. But this chick is cute.. how can I convert her interest over to me? Without seeming so damn AFC.. she's giving me really mixed signals right now. This is requiring more game than I had originally planned..
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
My second though.. this might require more skilled than planned..
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