LinkinParkROX
Don Juan
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- Jun 27, 2009
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This is definitely a first for me. I'm not exactly the most serious guy around. I play with women, have my fun with fbs and all that. Recently, I've found myself in a relationship with a woman I like. The problem is, the whole relationship thing is totally new to me. I'm pretty much used to casual sex and a "do I know you?" the morning after. The thing here, is I actually care about keeping this one. She told me that her longest relationship lasted only a week. I deduced (and she confirmed) that it came from guys being too nice/AFC, reeking of desperation, buying her gifts, caling her, and thus being a turn off. Which is why she broke up with them. I mean, this is pretty basic stuff that every Don Juan/rAFC knows. What I do know, is that she is madly in love with me, and shows it everywhere possible. Her AIM nickname is even Abby <3 [LinkinParkROX].
Since we got into the relationship, for some reason I keep trying to keep her, reminding myself of her longest relationship being a week long. This is totally fucking up my game. It's going to lead to her being the prize if I keep in contact. I haven't been in good contact because of this very reason. Up until now I've easily maintained my position as the prize, and she's been pitifully trying to impress me & show off her "life". It's nice that she's trying, but that's coming out of her knowing my extreme high value and trying to catch up. I can tell. We had a date on thursday with very very intense stuff happening, and since then, I haven't called at all. I did happen to see her on AIM a day and a half later and say hi, hold up a short conversation, disappearing after she got excited, leaving her wanting more but not exactly giving it to her.
Also, I pass by these girlie gift shops at malls, and she's the first thing on my mind. I then tell myself "No. I'm the Don Juan, the prize. She's gonna be the one buying the gifts. " and walk away. Basically, I need to reassure myself. I plan on keeping this one, and have no idea how to do so. I guess being my regular unchanged Don Juan self should do the trick. But this is messed up, I actually wondered how long to wait before I call her, taking into consideration the 3-day rule and all that hoohaa. I've never had to do this before. I also am afraid to stay out of contact for too long or she might lose interest, which is why I was on AIM today. Also our intense moments from thursday keep playing back in my head & I want to go out again and do it again, but am not asking her out because it'd be too soon and it's good to be a rare commodity and all that. This is fucked up. My first real relationship. How do I keep it without being this way? Damn. I haven't felt this fucked up in a long time.
Since we got into the relationship, for some reason I keep trying to keep her, reminding myself of her longest relationship being a week long. This is totally fucking up my game. It's going to lead to her being the prize if I keep in contact. I haven't been in good contact because of this very reason. Up until now I've easily maintained my position as the prize, and she's been pitifully trying to impress me & show off her "life". It's nice that she's trying, but that's coming out of her knowing my extreme high value and trying to catch up. I can tell. We had a date on thursday with very very intense stuff happening, and since then, I haven't called at all. I did happen to see her on AIM a day and a half later and say hi, hold up a short conversation, disappearing after she got excited, leaving her wanting more but not exactly giving it to her.
Also, I pass by these girlie gift shops at malls, and she's the first thing on my mind. I then tell myself "No. I'm the Don Juan, the prize. She's gonna be the one buying the gifts. " and walk away. Basically, I need to reassure myself. I plan on keeping this one, and have no idea how to do so. I guess being my regular unchanged Don Juan self should do the trick. But this is messed up, I actually wondered how long to wait before I call her, taking into consideration the 3-day rule and all that hoohaa. I've never had to do this before. I also am afraid to stay out of contact for too long or she might lose interest, which is why I was on AIM today. Also our intense moments from thursday keep playing back in my head & I want to go out again and do it again, but am not asking her out because it'd be too soon and it's good to be a rare commodity and all that. This is fucked up. My first real relationship. How do I keep it without being this way? Damn. I haven't felt this fucked up in a long time.