"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
My realization about sosuave and its members.
- Thread starter khash
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Rewind to a post you made a few days ago...khash said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=922883#post922883khash said:
From your profile, I see that you've been a member of the forum for about 8 days. I applaud the eagerness in which you want to be a "senior member", but in all honesty it generally takes longer than a week to address other people as "newbies".
Easy come, easy go.
Yes, there are many AFC's on here. Still, there are some insightful posters as well. This is not a bad site by any means.
Eitherway, I wish you the best. Getting off the net only means more time for you in the real world. Which is NOT a bad thing. Good luck man. Im staying here.
this thread was meant to make people aware that dont trust everything you read here. just be careful and dont take everything too seriously, i didnt say everybody is a chump. there are players obviously. I originally though this site is full of players, but there is not as many as you think
when i say i dont visit this forum, i meant not often. somehow often got missed there.
peace until next time.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
There was a time, a long time ago, when I was more wrapped up in the "board politics" of this place then actually using it to learn. I lost focus. Yes I come here often now, but I work online at home, and it kills time while I am waiting for slow ass download feeds to work.
As far as advice, all the advice you could ever want is in the DJ bible. All questions now are just reworded versions of what is already there.
$$$$
Besides, I don't care where you are from or what you do... Internet or Not... You will ALWAYS have to use discression on everything you do. There are as many lies and BS offline. Probably, MORE... Going anywhere and believe everything is just plain....
yup you know the word.
Mac_Laaarry
Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Where my gurlll attttt?............ My gurl's chitten on me!!
OHHH NOOOOOOOO.
then his friend says: SHOW EM BATMAN. SHOW EM COWBOY. WHAT YOU KNOW ABOUT THAT BATMAN?
the guy says to this girl:girl,my pythons be keeping u safe in the amazon, come wimmie.
LOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
Good post!Your right about everything everyone on this site is a loser expect for me why because I'm here to give advice,yes I will post ALOT on this forum but i'm posting advice.I say 90% of the guys here spend more time on the internet/computer/this forum rather then hollering at some fine girls or f*ckin.What khash just posted is the truth that's why everyone reading this is going to try and be denial it or be mad its the truth YOUR ALL losers who suck at women.khash has posted the truth I know to the guys reading this the truth hurts,it's true you all suck at women and need websites to get help.My suggestion is listen to khash because he has posted the truth!khash said:
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Yes, because of course you can be having sex wih women 24 hours a day.khash said:
Not being good is the easiest way to suck at something. You're just a marvel of intelligent thought aren't you?khash said:
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
LOL, khash, from our conversation on IM...code2009 said:
This is the kind of person that has not developed... he may know women, but he is a tard in every other way.
What the hell are you talking about? How was I acting like a lifetime member? How was I trying to act tough. In fact, I agreed that it was rediculous to see 15 year olds giving advice. I just said, that it was worth a laugh. Any adult that would sit back and take advice from a child is well... an idiot. It has nothing to do with acting "tough."
Man, you come on here sounding all self-rightious... and you try to diss me, when im just trying to come correct. If anything, you sound childish. No joke. A man would not post about how lame everyone on the site is at getting women.
Especially, when you yourself have "very little experience with getting women."
Just leave. Don't create a thread, just to express some view point, because your bitter that everyone on the site is not some player... as you were led to believe.
For the record, I know myself, I get ladies and I am not upset about your "post." But, you should try using your brain... thats if you can.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
KarmaSutra
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khash said:
Weren't you leaving to go play Halo or some sh!t? You hypocritical fvcktard.
Go the fvck away already.
V-Don said:
dude i donno what to say about u. i was gonna ignore this message but ur too much of a tool. first of all, im very experienced with women u tool. i am not sexually experienced as in i havent banged more than 20. thats what i mean. i didnt mean im some fool that hasnt touched a girl.
AND I am one of the best looking guys in my university. girls love me, i just ignore the **** out of them most of them time. WHY? i got things to worry about right now. i am studying to get into dental school. thats right. I am an A+ student in every course in university. I dont have time for women.
I have come to the realization that while dentistry is a profession, women have their place too. Thefore, I have become more sexually open to girls.
I don wanna see no more posts here by u man, and u dont set the norms around here. I SET MY OWN NORMS. if i feel a post is appropriate, I go ahead and put it here.
who are u to tell me that I cant put what threat or not. I do as I wish.
code2009 said:
It is in human and animal tendacy to deny the cold and hard face of reality. all these guys are perfect example. just validates my theory of animalistic nature.
In fact, I wanted to test people's reaction as well. Even though I meant everyword of this post, i predicted denial responses. to deny reality just means u are not men yet. I am 19 and I am more man than 90% of u folks.
any more LITTLE BOYS wanna bash away?
HOlllaaaaaaaaaaa, LOOOLL
Man I didn't want to get in the way of your guys arguements but I just couldn't resist it.V-don what u posted saying 15 year old kids giving advice is rediculous is a stupid comment.I know 15 year olds who get more booty then u seriously,this days statiscts say 15-16 boys are having more sex then adults.Thats why girls get more pregnart a younger age last when I was 15 wow I was getting soo much booty,even now though.But anyways I think you are offended by his post that's why you keep insulting him about any 15 year old taking advice is an idiot,sounds like your hurt.Remeber its just my opinion and I don't know if your affected by the post or not im assuming and just posting my opinion so don't all offended if u read thisV-Don said:
But remeber this age ain't nuthing but a number so u can learn stuff from people younger then you.I know some 12 year old boys more mature and smarter then guys ages 25 so stop assuming just because someone is younger doesn't mean their aren't as educated as the older person we call that stereotype!Man my hands are tired I typed too much,loljohnmich
Senior Don Juan
diablo said:Please, get your story straight.
Rewind to a post you made a few days ago...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=922883#post922883
From your profile, I see that you've been a member of the forum for about 8 days. I applaud the eagerness in which you want to be a "senior member", but in all honesty it generally takes longer than a week to address other people as "newbies".
Easy come, easy go.
LOL love these posts, pisses all over Khashkarmasutra said:
i also love the word fvcktard
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.