"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
My realization about sosuave and its members.
- Thread starter khash
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
diablo
Master Don Juan
Rewind to a post you made a few days ago...khash said:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=922883#post922883khash said:
From your profile, I see that you've been a member of the forum for about 8 days. I applaud the eagerness in which you want to be a "senior member", but in all honesty it generally takes longer than a week to address other people as "newbies".
Easy come, easy go.
Yes, there are many AFC's on here. Still, there are some insightful posters as well. This is not a bad site by any means.
Eitherway, I wish you the best. Getting off the net only means more time for you in the real world. Which is NOT a bad thing. Good luck man. Im staying here.
this thread was meant to make people aware that dont trust everything you read here. just be careful and dont take everything too seriously, i didnt say everybody is a chump. there are players obviously. I originally though this site is full of players, but there is not as many as you think
when i say i dont visit this forum, i meant not often. somehow often got missed there.
peace until next time.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
There was a time, a long time ago, when I was more wrapped up in the "board politics" of this place then actually using it to learn. I lost focus. Yes I come here often now, but I work online at home, and it kills time while I am waiting for slow ass download feeds to work.
As far as advice, all the advice you could ever want is in the DJ bible. All questions now are just reworded versions of what is already there.
$$$$
Besides, I don't care where you are from or what you do... Internet or Not... You will ALWAYS have to use discression on everything you do. There are as many lies and BS offline. Probably, MORE... Going anywhere and believe everything is just plain....
yup you know the word.
Mac_Laaarry
Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Where my gurlll attttt?............ My gurl's chitten on me!!
OHHH NOOOOOOOO.
then his friend says: SHOW EM BATMAN. SHOW EM COWBOY. WHAT YOU KNOW ABOUT THAT BATMAN?
the guy says to this girl:girl,my pythons be keeping u safe in the amazon, come wimmie.
LOOOOOOOOOOLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLL
Good post!Your right about everything everyone on this site is a loser expect for me why because I'm here to give advice,yes I will post ALOT on this forum but i'm posting advice.I say 90% of the guys here spend more time on the internet/computer/this forum rather then hollering at some fine girls or f*ckin.What khash just posted is the truth that's why everyone reading this is going to try and be denial it or be mad its the truth YOUR ALL losers who suck at women.khash has posted the truth I know to the guys reading this the truth hurts,it's true you all suck at women and need websites to get help.My suggestion is listen to khash because he has posted the truth!khash said:
S1NN3R
Master Don Juan
Yes, because of course you can be having sex wih women 24 hours a day.khash said:
Not being good is the easiest way to suck at something. You're just a marvel of intelligent thought aren't you?khash said:
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
LOL, khash, from our conversation on IM...code2009 said:
This is the kind of person that has not developed... he may know women, but he is a tard in every other way.
What the hell are you talking about? How was I acting like a lifetime member? How was I trying to act tough. In fact, I agreed that it was rediculous to see 15 year olds giving advice. I just said, that it was worth a laugh. Any adult that would sit back and take advice from a child is well... an idiot. It has nothing to do with acting "tough."
Man, you come on here sounding all self-rightious... and you try to diss me, when im just trying to come correct. If anything, you sound childish. No joke. A man would not post about how lame everyone on the site is at getting women.
Especially, when you yourself have "very little experience with getting women."
Just leave. Don't create a thread, just to express some view point, because your bitter that everyone on the site is not some player... as you were led to believe.
For the record, I know myself, I get ladies and I am not upset about your "post." But, you should try using your brain... thats if you can.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
KarmaSutra
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khash said:
Weren't you leaving to go play Halo or some sh!t? You hypocritical fvcktard.
Go the fvck away already.
V-Don said:
dude i donno what to say about u. i was gonna ignore this message but ur too much of a tool. first of all, im very experienced with women u tool. i am not sexually experienced as in i havent banged more than 20. thats what i mean. i didnt mean im some fool that hasnt touched a girl.
AND I am one of the best looking guys in my university. girls love me, i just ignore the **** out of them most of them time. WHY? i got things to worry about right now. i am studying to get into dental school. thats right. I am an A+ student in every course in university. I dont have time for women.
I have come to the realization that while dentistry is a profession, women have their place too. Thefore, I have become more sexually open to girls.
I don wanna see no more posts here by u man, and u dont set the norms around here. I SET MY OWN NORMS. if i feel a post is appropriate, I go ahead and put it here.
who are u to tell me that I cant put what threat or not. I do as I wish.
code2009 said:
It is in human and animal tendacy to deny the cold and hard face of reality. all these guys are perfect example. just validates my theory of animalistic nature.
In fact, I wanted to test people's reaction as well. Even though I meant everyword of this post, i predicted denial responses. to deny reality just means u are not men yet. I am 19 and I am more man than 90% of u folks.
any more LITTLE BOYS wanna bash away?
HOlllaaaaaaaaaaa, LOOOLL
Man I didn't want to get in the way of your guys arguements but I just couldn't resist it.V-don what u posted saying 15 year old kids giving advice is rediculous is a stupid comment.I know 15 year olds who get more booty then u seriously,this days statiscts say 15-16 boys are having more sex then adults.Thats why girls get more pregnart a younger age last when I was 15 wow I was getting soo much booty,even now though.But anyways I think you are offended by his post that's why you keep insulting him about any 15 year old taking advice is an idiot,sounds like your hurt.Remeber its just my opinion and I don't know if your affected by the post or not im assuming and just posting my opinion so don't all offended if u read thisV-Don said:
But remeber this age ain't nuthing but a number so u can learn stuff from people younger then you.I know some 12 year old boys more mature and smarter then guys ages 25 so stop assuming just because someone is younger doesn't mean their aren't as educated as the older person we call that stereotype!Man my hands are tired I typed too much,loljohnmich
Senior Don Juan
diablo said:Please, get your story straight.
Rewind to a post you made a few days ago...
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=922883#post922883
From your profile, I see that you've been a member of the forum for about 8 days. I applaud the eagerness in which you want to be a "senior member", but in all honesty it generally takes longer than a week to address other people as "newbies".
Easy come, easy go.
LOL love these posts, pisses all over Khashkarmasutra said:
i also love the word fvcktard
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.