"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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My quick thoughts on ****y funny, please share your own views

JdelaSilviera

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For me it seems that ****y funny, push/pull and negs are the best piece of advice in the PUA community
Yes these "techniques" can make wet pants incredibly quickly, but here is the deal, you shouldn´t try to be ****y and funny during the interaction. You will feel very very awkward.

These things work, but they have to be part of yourself... For instance a nice guy isn´t thinkin "oh i´m gonna be nice now", the same with ****y funny.

And don´t use ****y funny too much, I have seen that girls like it at first but when you overuse it, you seem like you are an insecure guy, or simply a clown. You could really look like a robot trying to be too much of cf... ( i did and learned it).
I know a fat loser, that is always telling other people in the facebook, that they are ugly or other remarks, trying to sound cool and putting down others.
Women will feel the same I guess if you try to hard to put them down.
A high value guy actually recognizes when others do something good, the loser doesn´t .

2/3 ****y funny remarks in each interaction (let´s say 30 min conversation) should be enought to show you are confident and you have the balls.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hakuna said:
yeah, I've seen girls actually call out guys and tell them to stop trying to be "****y/funny" to pick up girls. It left them speechless.
:crackup: Are you serious???
 

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tobylikestennis said:
can someone explain what push pull is
The first time I tried push pull with a girl, I couldn´t believe how well it worked.

You should do something along these lines, give a sort of a complement and then introduce a "but".

I got this from seduction tuition:

I grabbed a woman's hand and said, “You have the most amazing smile I've seen tonight… It makes me feel so happy inside!”

She responded with, “Thank you!”

Then I counted the fingers on my other hand and said, “You know what: actually there were four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. I'm going to call you number four.”

And then I pushed away her hand.

She demanded, “Nooo! I want to be number one!”

And I replied , “Alright, I'll promote you to number three for being feisty.”


I tried something similar to this one, and I was impressed that even my girl said she wanted to be the first... Women are all the same lol.
She was instantly fascinated...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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JdelaSilviera

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Hakuna said:
yeah, I've seen girls actually call out guys and tell them to stop trying to be "****y/funny" to pick up girls. It left them speechless.
Yeah, pua community will regress years of knowledge when all this comes to public. But that´s what sellers like david d, mystery etc.. want... Then they will find something "new" and magic that works for all women.
 
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