"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My quick thoughts on ****y funny, please share your own views

JdelaSilviera

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For me it seems that ****y funny, push/pull and negs are the best piece of advice in the PUA community
Yes these "techniques" can make wet pants incredibly quickly, but here is the deal, you shouldn´t try to be ****y and funny during the interaction. You will feel very very awkward.

These things work, but they have to be part of yourself... For instance a nice guy isn´t thinkin "oh i´m gonna be nice now", the same with ****y funny.

And don´t use ****y funny too much, I have seen that girls like it at first but when you overuse it, you seem like you are an insecure guy, or simply a clown. You could really look like a robot trying to be too much of cf... ( i did and learned it).
I know a fat loser, that is always telling other people in the facebook, that they are ugly or other remarks, trying to sound cool and putting down others.
Women will feel the same I guess if you try to hard to put them down.
A high value guy actually recognizes when others do something good, the loser doesn´t .

2/3 ****y funny remarks in each interaction (let´s say 30 min conversation) should be enought to show you are confident and you have the balls.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hakuna said:
yeah, I've seen girls actually call out guys and tell them to stop trying to be "****y/funny" to pick up girls. It left them speechless.
:crackup: Are you serious???
 

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tobylikestennis said:
can someone explain what push pull is
The first time I tried push pull with a girl, I couldn´t believe how well it worked.

You should do something along these lines, give a sort of a complement and then introduce a "but".

I got this from seduction tuition:

I grabbed a woman's hand and said, “You have the most amazing smile I've seen tonight… It makes me feel so happy inside!”

She responded with, “Thank you!”

Then I counted the fingers on my other hand and said, “You know what: actually there were four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. I'm going to call you number four.”

And then I pushed away her hand.

She demanded, “Nooo! I want to be number one!”

And I replied , “Alright, I'll promote you to number three for being feisty.”


I tried something similar to this one, and I was impressed that even my girl said she wanted to be the first... Women are all the same lol.
She was instantly fascinated...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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JdelaSilviera

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Hakuna said:
yeah, I've seen girls actually call out guys and tell them to stop trying to be "****y/funny" to pick up girls. It left them speechless.
Yeah, pua community will regress years of knowledge when all this comes to public. But that´s what sellers like david d, mystery etc.. want... Then they will find something "new" and magic that works for all women.
 
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