"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

My quick thoughts on ****y funny, please share your own views

JdelaSilviera

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 10, 2010
Messages
564
Reaction score
41
For me it seems that ****y funny, push/pull and negs are the best piece of advice in the PUA community
Yes these "techniques" can make wet pants incredibly quickly, but here is the deal, you shouldn´t try to be ****y and funny during the interaction. You will feel very very awkward.

These things work, but they have to be part of yourself... For instance a nice guy isn´t thinkin "oh i´m gonna be nice now", the same with ****y funny.

And don´t use ****y funny too much, I have seen that girls like it at first but when you overuse it, you seem like you are an insecure guy, or simply a clown. You could really look like a robot trying to be too much of cf... ( i did and learned it).
I know a fat loser, that is always telling other people in the facebook, that they are ugly or other remarks, trying to sound cool and putting down others.
Women will feel the same I guess if you try to hard to put them down.
A high value guy actually recognizes when others do something good, the loser doesn´t .

2/3 ****y funny remarks in each interaction (let´s say 30 min conversation) should be enought to show you are confident and you have the balls.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Kirro

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 2, 2010
Messages
368
Reaction score
16
Location
NY
Hakuna said:
yeah, I've seen girls actually call out guys and tell them to stop trying to be "****y/funny" to pick up girls. It left them speechless.
:crackup: Are you serious???
 

JdelaSilviera

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 10, 2010
Messages
564
Reaction score
41
tobylikestennis said:
can someone explain what push pull is
The first time I tried push pull with a girl, I couldn´t believe how well it worked.

You should do something along these lines, give a sort of a complement and then introduce a "but".

I got this from seduction tuition:

I grabbed a woman's hand and said, “You have the most amazing smile I've seen tonight… It makes me feel so happy inside!”

She responded with, “Thank you!”

Then I counted the fingers on my other hand and said, “You know what: actually there were four other girls with really amazing smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile. I'm going to call you number four.”

And then I pushed away her hand.

She demanded, “Nooo! I want to be number one!”

And I replied , “Alright, I'll promote you to number three for being feisty.”


I tried something similar to this one, and I was impressed that even my girl said she wanted to be the first... Women are all the same lol.
She was instantly fascinated...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

JdelaSilviera

Master Don Juan
Joined
May 10, 2010
Messages
564
Reaction score
41
Hakuna said:
yeah, I've seen girls actually call out guys and tell them to stop trying to be "****y/funny" to pick up girls. It left them speechless.
Yeah, pua community will regress years of knowledge when all this comes to public. But that´s what sellers like david d, mystery etc.. want... Then they will find something "new" and magic that works for all women.
 
Top