Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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My questions answered...

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I posted the second time becuase my first post fell way to the back and I didnt figure that anyone would see it. I posted this time because I got the full story and I know all the details behind it. That's just wanted to know if, with all this new info, I should even care about it. I guess it's MY issue, right?

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Heheh,..ya know I took a rocket ship to the moon the other day and was gonna put the Flag of Tomassi there for all to see, but godammit there's this flag that was already there with some stars and stripes on it (these guys are everywhere!) So you know what I did? I pulled that fvckin' thing up, put my own flag right where it was, dump that flag into space on my way back to earth and now the moon thinks I'm the only one that owns it.

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