"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My progress with this girl..and where its at. Where do I go from here..need some help

shark

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Well I was working on getting this girl to like me. I used some kino, and made fun of her a lot...was funny and ****y. It seemed to work. After a few weeks, the other day she starting flirting with me online and such calling me sexy and all this. She got mad when I said she looked good and not "great". She asked if i liked her, I said yes..and she said she liked me.

On her profile thingy though it says something like, "why cant i find a decent guy". Hmm...why is this?

I don't really see her besides weekends. I talk to her online onces a week, if i see her in school i just say hi.

She will be away next weekend and ask me to call her...do i call her or not?

Do I just do what i've been doing? Do i question her about her profile and say something like whats up with your profile, you met me remember. Something like that?

hmm..thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Patrick124

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if anything crack a joke about it, ****y n funny u know.

chances are its not about you. Girls have **** in their profiles all the time about that, and then they flirt with me liek ****. don't take it to heart.

and talk to her in person. and as for calling her i say call ehr Sunday night and ask ehr botu ehr weekend, and make plans to chill.
 

shark

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she cant chill the whole weekend, said she'd be bored..wants me to call. do i?
 

pokie87

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Na if shes bored when she is away she will call you. Appear to have stuff to do at the weekend. When she inevitably calls you when she is bored say ''im busy right now, ill call you back in half an hour'' Then call her in half an hour. You have control of the situation. Dont be a wuss who has nothing better to do at the weekend than talk to a girl on the phone. At the moment it seems like you are making her your only option and that your life revolves around her.
 
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