"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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My progress with this girl..and where its at. Where do I go from here..need some help

shark

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Well I was working on getting this girl to like me. I used some kino, and made fun of her a lot...was funny and ****y. It seemed to work. After a few weeks, the other day she starting flirting with me online and such calling me sexy and all this. She got mad when I said she looked good and not "great". She asked if i liked her, I said yes..and she said she liked me.

On her profile thingy though it says something like, "why cant i find a decent guy". Hmm...why is this?

I don't really see her besides weekends. I talk to her online onces a week, if i see her in school i just say hi.

She will be away next weekend and ask me to call her...do i call her or not?

Do I just do what i've been doing? Do i question her about her profile and say something like whats up with your profile, you met me remember. Something like that?

hmm..thanks
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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if anything crack a joke about it, ****y n funny u know.

chances are its not about you. Girls have **** in their profiles all the time about that, and then they flirt with me liek ****. don't take it to heart.

and talk to her in person. and as for calling her i say call ehr Sunday night and ask ehr botu ehr weekend, and make plans to chill.
 

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she cant chill the whole weekend, said she'd be bored..wants me to call. do i?
 

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Na if shes bored when she is away she will call you. Appear to have stuff to do at the weekend. When she inevitably calls you when she is bored say ''im busy right now, ill call you back in half an hour'' Then call her in half an hour. You have control of the situation. Dont be a wuss who has nothing better to do at the weekend than talk to a girl on the phone. At the moment it seems like you are making her your only option and that your life revolves around her.
 
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