"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My progress journal... (pics included!)

ChrizZ

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Hi guys,

I have been working out for a few months already, but without a workout plan or nutrition plan. However I took a college class now for weight training so I wanna keep this thread updated to see my progress.

About me:

age: 18

height: 6'3"

weight: 185pds

bf %: dunno yet

goal: working out 3x a week with a nutrition plan and a workout plan.

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this is what I look like now...

http://i160.photobucket.com/albums/t181/Chrizz123456/DSCF0479.jpg

http://i160.photobucket.com/albums/t181/Chrizz123456/DSCF0482.jpg

http://i160.photobucket.com/albums/t181/Chrizz123456/DSCF0483.jpg

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I will post my workout and nutrition plan soon. I will also update this thread every month. I'd like feedback from u guys on what part of my body I should work on more.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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KontrollerX

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Good job bro.

Seems your muscles are emerging bit by bit.

I think if you need extra help in any area you can probably PM that Warboss Alex guy here as he seems to be a fountain of knowledge about this stuff and always willing to help.
 

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Lookin good

Some things Off top of my head:

Might want to lose a bit more fat, it should happen if you workout/eat right

Build some more all around muscle, but it seems as though your chest is lacking, so are your lats.
 

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Chris,

looks good, buddy.

Keep up your protein intake and EFAs.
Keep all carbs to Low Glycemics, ok?

Make sure you're cycling a Creatine/Arginie NO prouct for big gains every few weeks.

Oh, and..lol...get a tan!!!



OK, right off the bat.

Your shoulders are somewhat rotated forward.

You may want to include a super set day in your workout for a few weeks in where you are doing Incline Bench Press to Lat Pull downs, and Flat Bench Press to to seated Rows pulled high up to your chest, then as you gain more strength (especially in the spinal erectors and rhomboids) move to the Bent Over barbell Rows, keeping strict form and elbows closer to your shoulders rather than your hips.
Basically a Torso Push/Pull day.

You want to make sure your shoulders are pulled back, and that mainly comes from good, precise Rowing. If you have added time, look into reinforcing the Rear Delts? Do this alternativing with the Bent Over lateral Raises, and the reverse Pec Dek, so that you're sitting facing the pad, and pulling back, that way you work the Rhomboids and Rear delts. This creates a super solid shoulder girdle structure, and you will see great posture, and increase in Bench and Row/ Pulldown-Pullups numbers, and greatly reduce chance of Rotator Cuff injury.

Good work, bud. Keep it up!
 

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DO NOT start taking things like NO, or including supersetting in your workout, they are not necessary.

You are in beginner territory, you just need a good solid nutrition plan and a simple, effective routine.

I wouldn't worry about fat for the moment, as Kev says if you do things correctly you should probably lose fat anyway.

At your level of development it is hard to tell if you have any weak points. If you have never followed a good routine and diet plan, I think it isn't really possible to say you have a weak point. You just need to put on some overall muscle and get your big three, squat, deads and bench press through the roof.

Post up the routine the college give you, and the nutritional advice. I have never seen advice from a college, it could be good. However if your goals are strength and/or size then the majority of information in fitness gyms etc is FLAWED. If you're plan doesn't include either squats or deads I'd leave the class and go straight with the "WHERE TO START" sticky in the H&F Vault under EFFORT. If you're plan also doesn't contain either lots of beef or eggs or any recommendation on a HIGH protein intake, I'd also consider seeking other advice.

Good luck.

P.s.-If time is a factor you could do weights 2x a week, still effective.
 
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Quagmire911 said:
DO NOT start taking things like NO, or including supersetting in your workout, they are not necessary.

You are in beginner territory, you just need a good solid nutrition plan and a simple, effective routine.

I wouldn't worry about fat for the moment, as Kev says if you do things correctly you should probably lose fat anyway.

At your level of development it is hard to tell if you have any weak points. If you have never followed a good routine and diet plan, I think it isn't really possible to say you have a weak point. You just need to put on some overall muscle and get your big three, squat, deads and bench press through the roof.

Post up the routine the college give you, and the nutritional advice. I have never seen advice from a college, it could be good. However if your goals are strength and/or size then the majority of information in fitness gyms etc is FLAWED. If you're plan doesn't include either squats or deads I'd leave the class and go straight with the "WHERE TO START" sticky at the top of this thread.

Good luck.
I can retire early. :D

As an aside, arginine and creatine alone will not make an optimal NO product.. but that's another story.
 

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ChrizZ said:
I will post my workout and nutrition plan soon. I will also update this thread every month. I'd like feedback from u guys on what part of my body I should work on more.
You should aim for 20-50lbs of overall weight gain before thinking about specific bodyparts - right now your whole body needs work (not an insult).

Also, update the thread every day or at least every week so we can get you on the right track as quickly as possible.
 

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good man. it would be beneficial for you, at least for the first few weeks, to log every day.. include your daily diet, activities (i.e. did you help a buddy move house or did you sit and play video games all day), training or cardio if done, and also general health/energy levels. basically log everything you can so we can ensure you progress as best as possible.
 

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I've added this to the Progress Logs sticky at the top of the H&F vault. That means you have to keep it updated regularly and give 110% committment to your routine. If you don't, we'll hound your ass until you do!! Good luck mate, keep it updated :).

About logging your diet and stuff, a method I use is to have a little notepad at my desk, so at night before I go to bed I log all the food I ate for the day. For the first few days it will be pretty difficult(reading labels, thinking about it altogether way too much, etc.) It does get easier when you know the foods you're eating.

ez bro
 

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Oh man! If your body needs work then I know my body needs a miracle. In your pictures your body looks ok to me. I guess I don't see where you think that you need to work on it myself. Anyway, best wishes on your goals!
 

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Sorry ladies, this is a lifting journal. You can argue about training techniques in PMs.
 

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Sunday, September 02

Okay, so since I can't lift until next week I decided to do some conditioning today to see how far I can push my limits.

My nutrition for today was:

1x PB&Jelly sandwich

1x glass of milk

1x orange chicken + rice

1x about 2l of water


My workout:

I went to the stadium at my college to do some conditioning.

I ran laps including running up and down the bleachers. In addition I did 10 push ups and 10 crunches for every lap.

I pushed myself as hard as I could and I managed to do 8 laps. After that I collapsed.

I wanted to call it a day after that, but then I saw that the last bus just left right in front of me. I was pissed, but then I thought to myself "fvck it. If life is a b!tch go slap it in the face". So I jogged about 12 miles and then I eventually got home.

The weird thing is now that I'm home I don't feel exhausted at all anymore.
 

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@ ChrizZ,

Dude your gonna have to eat a lot more fruits,egg whites,chicken,ground beef/turkey,tuna,peanuts and veggies to get where you want.

Just eat those whenever you have a urge to eat and you'll be there in no time flat.
 

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blinkwatt said:
@ ChrizZ,

Dude your gonna have to eat a lot more fruits,egg whites,chicken,ground beef/turkey,tuna,peanuts and veggies to get where you want.

Just eat those whenever you have a urge to eat and you'll be there in no time flat.
I got two questions and I didn't want to open a new thread.

1. Does running in between lifting days have any effect?

2. Should I take any supplements?
 

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ChrizZ said:
I got two questions and I didn't want to open a new thread.

1. Does running in between lifting days have any effect?

2. Should I take any supplements?

Of course it has effects. If you're going to do cardio between lifting days make sure you don't do too much. 10-20 minutes should be good, or else you could hinder your recovery from lifting.

It will also help you lose more fat.


You can take supplements if you want. Whey Protein is always good, so are fish oil/flaxseed oil capsules. You don't really need to take supplements though.

Eat more, wtf.
 

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