"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ChrizZ said:
well, he's 5'11 245pds and said he once did a 90pds biceps curl. I'll just ask him why he doesn't let me do the big compound exercises.
dude, lots of people can do a 90lbs bicep curl.

he may however be just following gym policy of not recommending compounds for the safety factor (insurance etc) even though he may not agree with it (if he is a serious lifter). you can ask him this straight out, most trainers are honest about it.

in any case he has prescribed to you catabolic aerobics, whether they're of his design or not.

go with the routines in Where To Start or stronglifts.com
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Spes, Wolf:

the body will produce less blood cholesterol to balance out a higher dietary cholesterol intake, correct.
I know, but I know some 'don't believe till I see the research' type people who I would like to show the data to.
 

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why care about them?

do this: take in 12-36 eggs/day for six months. take cholesterol readings before and after. keep all other variables the same.

I guarantee that unless you have some sort of genetic tendency for high cholesterol, the readings will be the same OR it will be lower in the 'after' reading
 

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I dont know what you want to ask him, but those movements arnt going to do much for you.

If you're looking for size/strength, id focus on compound lifts. You can do the other stuff if you're looking to finish up a muscle group or something after you get the necessary things done.

Basically, focus on these:

Squats (full)
Deadlifts (conventional or sumo)
Stiff legged deadlift
Barbell/dumbbell rows
Dips (weighted if possible)
Military press (barbell or dumbbells)
Chin ups (weighted if possible)
Bench press
Good mornings
etc...

Of course you can add secondary movements, but id get the compound ones done 1st.

As for the diet, listen to warboss. You're going to have to EAT.

I personally had to eat in excess of 5K calories a day when I was trying to pack on size. If you're metabolism is faster, you're going to have to eat up. Ive seen people have to eat 6K, even 7K+ calories a day to gain.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
why care about them?
For the 'told ya so' satisfaction :D

Warboss Alex said:
do this: take in 12-36 eggs/day for six months. take cholesterol readings before and after. keep all other variables the same.
Well, I don't care about them so much that I'm willing to cut my egg consumption below 12 eggs a day.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Warboss Alex said:
the body will find an equilibrium between its own and dietary cholesterol. agricultural carbs are more responsible for poor cholesterol levels than eggs/fat.
Even whole gain carbs like oatmeal and whole wheat?
 

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spesmilitis said:
Even whole gain carbs like oatmeal and whole wheat?
whole grains are still grains so yeah. they may be advertised to reduce cholesterol levels but that's only when the previous diet was sh!tty.

there's nothing magic about whole/grains. they are in fact, the worst of the carbs.
 

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Warboss Alex said:
whole grains are still grains so yeah. they may be advertised to reduce cholesterol levels but that's only when the previous diet was sh!tty.

there's nothing magic about whole/grains. they are in fact, the worst of the carbs.
Really?

I never knew they were "that" bad.
 

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HK1 said:
Really?

I never knew they were "that" bad.
Going from the best carbs to the worst, it ranks like this:

Vegetables/fruit, potatoes/sweet potatoes, rice, grains (bread, cereal, pasta).

Carb intolerant people should never be eating grains really. i.e. fatasses.
 

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^^^^^
How did you rank those foods? Because, on the glycemic index charts, potatoes and even some fruits are higher than some grains.

Is there any dangers to consuming too much fructose besides offsetting the caloric balance? I read from one source that it does not require insulin. However, this source says otherwise:
" It is important to note that while fructose does have a low glycemic rating, it can still induce insulin resistance, increase triglycerides, and promote fat storage."
http://intelegen.com/nutrients/insulin_control_lose_weight.htm
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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