"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Analyzeit

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Ok heres my problem, and it happens all the time....!

I met chicks, goes really well, i get numbers, maybe met up not by myself though, anyway this where my game crashes, I see em every now and then but then i just get LJBF or even less then that, can someone point me to a thread or something to help me with this part of the game.

thanks
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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That is the story bro lol didn't think i made it that difficult
 

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ok...my guess is your misreading interest levels.

maybe met up not by myself though
I'm guessing your bringing friend(s)

GO on your own.

We can teach you game here but we need more information.

Did you read the DJ Bible yet?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No man she brings the friends lol I did read the bible and i thought it may be being to nice but hey maybe i wasn't as less nice as best but i wasn't desperate, wasn't making to many AFC mistakes,

And i know there is interest just from mates saying, even asking her friends and they say so (which is bad but i didn't ask them to lol) , and then just normal signs, I mean there definitely interest,

But there probably could be more interest, so im kinda pointing it to that direction, that i get interest up quickly and stuff then they just slowly lose it, it horrible to see

And it happens all the time, but the 2nd last one got a bf after losing interest levels so that ones fairly explained
 

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Ok I read your reply and I understand.

When you get a positive IOI are you escalating to a kiss
ASAP?
 

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No this is exactly where i get fairly stuck lol and it gets worse i run outta conversation and hell brakes lose and im stuck once again

btw somehow i ran outta my ten posts lol i was bored late last night, just putting this in also now i can get a small amount of kino in, but for some reason we im from you have to be "going out" to hold hands and stuff maybe not kiss u still need right moment, so help with not just kino please lol

I don't escalate to anything lol and i dont think i kno how to
 
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Analyzeit said:
And it happens all the time, but the 2nd last one got a bf after losing interest levels so that ones fairly explained
well it looks like she had high interest level in you and then you dropped the ball so she became frustrated and went out with the other guy,

but yeah what the other guy said, perhaps you are not escalating enough for the kiss, that's what i think
also i believe there should be a thread on this in the DJ bible i'll check for the links
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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