"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ok heres my problem, and it happens all the time....!

I met chicks, goes really well, i get numbers, maybe met up not by myself though, anyway this where my game crashes, I see em every now and then but then i just get LJBF or even less then that, can someone point me to a thread or something to help me with this part of the game.

thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That is the story bro lol didn't think i made it that difficult
 
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ok...my guess is your misreading interest levels.

maybe met up not by myself though
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I'm guessing your bringing friend(s)

GO on your own.

We can teach you game here but we need more information.

Did you read the DJ Bible yet?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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No man she brings the friends lol I did read the bible and i thought it may be being to nice but hey maybe i wasn't as less nice as best but i wasn't desperate, wasn't making to many AFC mistakes,

And i know there is interest just from mates saying, even asking her friends and they say so (which is bad but i didn't ask them to lol) , and then just normal signs, I mean there definitely interest,

But there probably could be more interest, so im kinda pointing it to that direction, that i get interest up quickly and stuff then they just slowly lose it, it horrible to see

And it happens all the time, but the 2nd last one got a bf after losing interest levels so that ones fairly explained
 
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Ok I read your reply and I understand.

When you get a positive IOI are you escalating to a kiss
ASAP?
 
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No this is exactly where i get fairly stuck lol and it gets worse i run outta conversation and hell brakes lose and im stuck once again

btw somehow i ran outta my ten posts lol i was bored late last night, just putting this in also now i can get a small amount of kino in, but for some reason we im from you have to be "going out" to hold hands and stuff maybe not kiss u still need right moment, so help with not just kino please lol

I don't escalate to anything lol and i dont think i kno how to
 
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Analyzeit said:
And it happens all the time, but the 2nd last one got a bf after losing interest levels so that ones fairly explained
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well it looks like she had high interest level in you and then you dropped the ball so she became frustrated and went out with the other guy,

but yeah what the other guy said, perhaps you are not escalating enough for the kiss, that's what i think
also i believe there should be a thread on this in the DJ bible i'll check for the links
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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