My problem, please read and help

[Sonny500]

This might sound like I am talking myself up, but I'm not.

My main problem in life is with girls and what people expect of me. Since I like to portray myself, and feel I am seen as the 'all round package' of looks brains etc I can't bear to expose something which will seem not up to my usual standard, which to me is my penis. I think it looks shocking in its flaccid state and is just ugly, and I can't get over it. Weird thing is I love how it looks when hard...but since I hate the flaccid look it makes it hard for me to expose myself to a girl. This has manifested to much that I have trouble getting hard when with someone since I think about my ****, being a virgin among other problems. It's gone so far I think I would rather masterbate then risk embarrassment with a girl. I need some advice in regards to this, I just need to read something from someone else that will hopefully make myself 'click' as to get over this stupidity. I know it's stupid. I know everyone has faults, even the girls I like who seem perfect. But since everyone sees me as 'perfect' I can't progress as to shake off this image - Partially because its what they expect from me, but mostly because I love having this image attached to myself. However, now I have decided I don't want it anymore, but like...I don't know how to get rid of it - and still be myself.

Does this make any sense? Please some advice

 

[lebRambo]

lmao! dude, if this sh*t is your biggest problem, you've got nothing to worry about. Girls dont look at d*cks the same way we do. Girls like the fact that they are completely utilitarian, and that they aren't there to look pretty but be functional. I mean, p*ssy looks beautiful to me, but EVERY SINGLE ONE of the girls i've sexed have told me that they don't like the way it looks, and i was gobsmacked first of all.

 

[Sonny500]

Yeh I guess, but I dunno. The wrinkles, the foreskin I just can't see how they would even touch it. Crazier still, I needed reassurance since I hated it so much and put myself on ratemyschlong...and managed to get #1. Great, right? Wrong. I have never had a girlfriend because of this issue I have with my flaccid ****. Crazy, I can tell myself its crazy. But like I can't get over it. What you said was helpful though.

BTW where in Canberra are you? What college?

 

[after_f_x]

Used to have a similar problem when i was a kid. I found out that when you reach that point with a woman, which is the having sex point, you are propably hard already. So no problem there. Even when you are finished and not hard anymore, she wouldn't mind if it looks bad, if of course you manage to satisfied her.
The simplest of all things though. If she makes fun of it, or sais somethong negative etc. it will mean that she is an unthoughtful *****, so you don't want to be with her anyway.

 

[lebRambo]

Originally posted by Sonny500

BTW where in Canberra are you? What college?

i'm at uni bro. ANU.

 

[Q-Pid]

ratemyschlong...

If you ever come to England ima kill you for showing me that website.

Your penis isn't there to look pretty. And I doubt very much a girl cares what it looks like flaccid. Stop stressing over it

 

[catch]

hey man all ****s look fcuking gross so yours is just just the same as most other guys...

could be worse...

have you ever seen that fat, ugly, bold guy that always walks across the beach naked... ime sure your **** looks better than his little weener...