I don't want you to say anything.Brian Griffin said:
I posted, you responded, so I asked if that was all you had to say in response. Seems straight-forward, not too confusing.
So if that's it, then again..conversation over.
Nice talking to you
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
My problem: Im good looking
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I posted, you responded, so I asked if that was all you had to say in response. Seems straight-forward, not too confusing.
So if that's it, then again..conversation over.
Nice talking to you
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Why do you keep repeating "conversation over"? Are you on a power trip or something?
BTW - Nice talking to you too. :crackup:
BTW - Nice talking to you too. :crackup:
NINJA PIMP
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Your problem is not your looks, it's your fear and self-consciousness. You need to stop being scared of girls and putting them above you..they can sense that you are a try-hard and this is what makes them uncomfortable. But since we are on the subject of looks, you couldnt have chosen a more bland one ...cmon dude..DOCKERS? LOL.. you need a dash of personality my friend. Put yourself in the shoes of someone who absolutely does not give a sh!t what people think of him. Who does he act? Dress? Hold a conversation?
Let go of your self-consciousness and project an easy-going vibe. Any great seducer will tell you that half the battle is just getting a girl comfortable around you, the other half is leading her as a MAN. Which brings me to the most important point - dont expect the sarge to go on autopilot or for her to do anything dominant. You are a big neo-male advocate..you should know that men and women have their place in the dance of seduction. Grow a pair and get some action, mate :box:
Let go of your self-consciousness and project an easy-going vibe. Any great seducer will tell you that half the battle is just getting a girl comfortable around you, the other half is leading her as a MAN. Which brings me to the most important point - dont expect the sarge to go on autopilot or for her to do anything dominant. You are a big neo-male advocate..you should know that men and women have their place in the dance of seduction. Grow a pair and get some action, mate :box:
Brian Griff. The first sentence of my post was directed towards you.
The rest was to the thread starter.
I never said you have poor looks
I have no problem posting a photo, if you want me to do so.
My point is that looks don't matter that much.
Presentation and communication style are key.
The rest was to the thread starter.
I never said you have poor looks
I have no problem posting a photo, if you want me to do so.
My point is that looks don't matter that much.
Presentation and communication style are key.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Brian Griffin
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Okay, I see what ya mean.
Well..
I never said you guys were ugly, I said you were average, of course some random chick is gonna think your cute. You guys aren't bad I won't lie.
I look like you guys, I've been told I'm cute thousands of times. But here we are on a message board trying to figure out why we aren't getting laid enough.
So fvck, we aren't as hot as we think we are. And there's a little more too it.
I never said you guys were ugly, I said you were average, of course some random chick is gonna think your cute. You guys aren't bad I won't lie.
I look like you guys, I've been told I'm cute thousands of times. But here we are on a message board trying to figure out why we aren't getting laid enough.
So fvck, we aren't as hot as we think we are. And there's a little more too it.
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Not getting laid isn't my problem. There's plenty of girls who want me. I came here for advice on a breakup and how to avoid certain things in the past.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
I have lost complete and utter understanding of what this post is saying anymore...
WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU GUYS TALKING ABOUT?
Why do you have to go off on your little rants and boo hoo's! Sick, and disrespectful! I am ashamed of the name calling and finger pointing. YOU are acting like a bunch of woman.
POSH!
OVER AND OUT!!
WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU GUYS TALKING ABOUT?
Why do you have to go off on your little rants and boo hoo's! Sick, and disrespectful! I am ashamed of the name calling and finger pointing. YOU are acting like a bunch of woman.
POSH!
OVER AND OUT!!
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Well, I'm good looking and I get laid alot, sometimes with minimal effort. The problem is, it's not always with the chicks that I really want to have sex with. But then, I'm lazy and only bother going after the women who are interested in me.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.