I don't want you to say anything.Brian Griffin said:
I posted, you responded, so I asked if that was all you had to say in response. Seems straight-forward, not too confusing.
So if that's it, then again..conversation over.
Nice talking to you
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
My problem: Im good looking
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I posted, you responded, so I asked if that was all you had to say in response. Seems straight-forward, not too confusing.
So if that's it, then again..conversation over.
Nice talking to you
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Why do you keep repeating "conversation over"? Are you on a power trip or something?
BTW - Nice talking to you too. :crackup:
BTW - Nice talking to you too. :crackup:
NINJA PIMP
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Your problem is not your looks, it's your fear and self-consciousness. You need to stop being scared of girls and putting them above you..they can sense that you are a try-hard and this is what makes them uncomfortable. But since we are on the subject of looks, you couldnt have chosen a more bland one ...cmon dude..DOCKERS? LOL.. you need a dash of personality my friend. Put yourself in the shoes of someone who absolutely does not give a sh!t what people think of him. Who does he act? Dress? Hold a conversation?
Let go of your self-consciousness and project an easy-going vibe. Any great seducer will tell you that half the battle is just getting a girl comfortable around you, the other half is leading her as a MAN. Which brings me to the most important point - dont expect the sarge to go on autopilot or for her to do anything dominant. You are a big neo-male advocate..you should know that men and women have their place in the dance of seduction. Grow a pair and get some action, mate :box:
Let go of your self-consciousness and project an easy-going vibe. Any great seducer will tell you that half the battle is just getting a girl comfortable around you, the other half is leading her as a MAN. Which brings me to the most important point - dont expect the sarge to go on autopilot or for her to do anything dominant. You are a big neo-male advocate..you should know that men and women have their place in the dance of seduction. Grow a pair and get some action, mate :box:
Brian Griff. The first sentence of my post was directed towards you.
The rest was to the thread starter.
I never said you have poor looks
I have no problem posting a photo, if you want me to do so.
My point is that looks don't matter that much.
Presentation and communication style are key.
The rest was to the thread starter.
I never said you have poor looks
I have no problem posting a photo, if you want me to do so.
My point is that looks don't matter that much.
Presentation and communication style are key.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Okay, I see what ya mean.
Well..
I never said you guys were ugly, I said you were average, of course some random chick is gonna think your cute. You guys aren't bad I won't lie.
I look like you guys, I've been told I'm cute thousands of times. But here we are on a message board trying to figure out why we aren't getting laid enough.
So fvck, we aren't as hot as we think we are. And there's a little more too it.
I never said you guys were ugly, I said you were average, of course some random chick is gonna think your cute. You guys aren't bad I won't lie.
I look like you guys, I've been told I'm cute thousands of times. But here we are on a message board trying to figure out why we aren't getting laid enough.
So fvck, we aren't as hot as we think we are. And there's a little more too it.
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Not getting laid isn't my problem. There's plenty of girls who want me. I came here for advice on a breakup and how to avoid certain things in the past.
zerocelcius
Master Don Juan
I have lost complete and utter understanding of what this post is saying anymore...
WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU GUYS TALKING ABOUT?
Why do you have to go off on your little rants and boo hoo's! Sick, and disrespectful! I am ashamed of the name calling and finger pointing. YOU are acting like a bunch of woman.
POSH!
OVER AND OUT!!
WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU GUYS TALKING ABOUT?
Why do you have to go off on your little rants and boo hoo's! Sick, and disrespectful! I am ashamed of the name calling and finger pointing. YOU are acting like a bunch of woman.
POSH!
OVER AND OUT!!
Don Juanabbe
Master Don Juan
Well, I'm good looking and I get laid alot, sometimes with minimal effort. The problem is, it's not always with the chicks that I really want to have sex with. But then, I'm lazy and only bother going after the women who are interested in me.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.