"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My Pool Party Tommoro

jiza101

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Hi,
im 17 and tommoro im having a pool party 15 people coming 7 guys 8 girls :>
Thing is im not comfortable with my body, like i have ***** tits and a bit of fat, unlike the rest of my friends who are basicly all muscly.
Now i need a few tips and so on, to help me out considering
a)im hosting the party
b)my bros doing the music
c)im not comfortable with my body AND its a pool party :/
d)any ideas to help me out
Its going to be 41 degrees celcius = HOT
so yer please give me a few ideas to help me get threw and make me a) pickup, and b)the party run well
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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IrReSiStIbLe

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Don't worry about it man...! Just wear a singlet if you're THAT embarrest... But seriously, dont give a ****, be proud of what u got ;)

U wanna pickup..? Spice the drinks with goatweed.. get them all horny...:D... nah, all i can say is- be confident... my 2 cents..

And dont forget to play RnB... ;)

Cheers,
IR.

P.S
Am i invited...? :D Just to even out the girl/guy ratio...? :D hehe have a good time..
 

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Man, don't be worried about your body at this point. You're only going to make it worse if you act all insecure about it. Just rock what you got for now. You may not be pulling chicks with your rock-hard abs, but it's not like you're MORBIDLY obese, right? Just go with it. But this should at least motivate you to get your ass in gear as far as exercise/diet is concerned.

As far as the party goes, just have fun! Since you're hosting, just be cool and talk to everyone. Again, if you start worrying about "making a pick-up," you're going to start acting insecure.

Insecurity is one of the top turn-offs for chicks.
 
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Wear a thong and let it all hang out!!!
 
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