"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My POF pictures, got SS' seal of approval?

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Iceberg

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Good job.

You know what I'm especially proud of? That you're not one of those people who ONLY has pictures that they took of themselves.

It always creeps me out when some girl or a dude has nothing but pictures of themself standing in the bathroom mirror. Weird sh*t.

But you get a gold star, my friend.
 

Desdinova

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The pics are decent, but I think your actual profile could use re-vamping. But getting a guy's opinion on your pictures isn't going to help you. You need to put them to the test and see what kind of results you get.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Shivastorm_88

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Iceberg said:
Good job.

You know what I'm especially proud of? That you're not one of those people who ONLY has pictures that they took of themselves.

It always creeps me out when some girl or a dude has nothing but pictures of themself standing in the bathroom mirror. Weird sh*t.

But you get a gold star, my friend.
Yeah it screams "I have no social life nor any interests to show"
 

Shivastorm_88

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Hah pictures make the world of a difference! I spammed the same message to about 50 girls, in less than 2 hours I got 15 replies...

I remember I tried the same gig (same profile, same message, crappier pictures) and would get maybe 5-6 replies from 50 messages in a span of one or two days
 

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Shivastorm_88 said:
Hah pictures make the world of a difference! I spammed the same message to about 50 girls, in less than 2 hours I got 15 replies...

I remember I tried the same gig (same profile, same message, crappier pictures) and would get maybe 5-6 replies from 50 messages in a span of one or two days
online game comes too looks/status that's it, yeah game helps but its more look base

real talk
 

Shivastorm_88

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Solomon said:
online game comes too looks/status that's it, yeah game helps but its more look base

real talk
Yeah well I see the difference, once again... I guess some of the pictures (like the one in the plane or the one swimming) really helps out... Shows off interesting hobbies I have, an adventurous side I possess and then also acts as simple eye candy... Much is said through a few pictures.
 
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