"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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My plan (advice)

Jerry Maguire

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Aiming to be strong/quick enough to get into the fire/police service in three years time

To gain muscle while maintaining/losing bodyfat (around 13%)

1.5g/lb protein intake
Complex carbs in morning only
Modest fat intake through dairy only
One cheat meal a week
Exercises - staple bench/squat/deadlift, adding/changing exercises monthly so I don't plateau.
Low intensity cardio the days I'm not training (4:3 respectively)
Good quality sleep

That's about it yeah?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sounds pretty good. Take fish oil + olive oil too. Many benefits for fat loss.

Also, it doesn't hurt to walk everday but legs day and if you want to speed it up even more, I'd walk in the evening on off days too for 20-30 minutes.

Maybe just have sunday as a cheat day? You know for sanity reasons :D

In three years you will be a monster!
 

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Kerpal said:
I don't think that's a very good program if you're getting ready for firefighting. You should incorporate some conditioning/power/odd object lifting and not just max strength/bodybuilding type training. Ross' stuff is supposed to be great for firefighters, Crossfit too.
Thanks mate, what's Ross' full name again? It's been a while since I checked him out the first time.


I-tallionStallion said:
Sounds pretty good. Take fish oil + olive oil too. Many benefits for fat loss.

Also, it doesn't hurt to walk everday but legs day and if you want to speed it up even more, I'd walk in the evening on off days too for 20-30 minutes.

Maybe just have sunday as a cheat day? You know for sanity reasons :D

In three years you will be a monster!
Cheers, will do
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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