"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My plan (advice)

Jerry Maguire

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Aiming to be strong/quick enough to get into the fire/police service in three years time

To gain muscle while maintaining/losing bodyfat (around 13%)

1.5g/lb protein intake
Complex carbs in morning only
Modest fat intake through dairy only
One cheat meal a week
Exercises - staple bench/squat/deadlift, adding/changing exercises monthly so I don't plateau.
Low intensity cardio the days I'm not training (4:3 respectively)
Good quality sleep

That's about it yeah?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Sounds pretty good. Take fish oil + olive oil too. Many benefits for fat loss.

Also, it doesn't hurt to walk everday but legs day and if you want to speed it up even more, I'd walk in the evening on off days too for 20-30 minutes.

Maybe just have sunday as a cheat day? You know for sanity reasons :D

In three years you will be a monster!
 

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Kerpal said:
I don't think that's a very good program if you're getting ready for firefighting. You should incorporate some conditioning/power/odd object lifting and not just max strength/bodybuilding type training. Ross' stuff is supposed to be great for firefighters, Crossfit too.
Thanks mate, what's Ross' full name again? It's been a while since I checked him out the first time.


I-tallionStallion said:
Sounds pretty good. Take fish oil + olive oil too. Many benefits for fat loss.

Also, it doesn't hurt to walk everday but legs day and if you want to speed it up even more, I'd walk in the evening on off days too for 20-30 minutes.

Maybe just have sunday as a cheat day? You know for sanity reasons :D

In three years you will be a monster!
Cheers, will do
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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