"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

My own Temptation Island

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

DJ de Florida

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 25, 2000
Messages
1,395
Reaction score
7
Location
Florida
BBJ? ChrisFL? What's up?



------------------
DJ de Florida
****
Just Do It!

1) Progress always involves risk: you can't steal second base and keep your foot on first.

2) Unless you try to do something beyond what you have already mastered, you will never grow.

3) You never really lose until you stop trying.
 

Sir_Chancealot

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 21, 2001
Messages
2,291
Reaction score
13
Age
55
Location
Indianapolis, Indiana
Originally posted by BigBadJon:
...she is very mature, and I doubt she is the psycho type...
EVERY woman is the psycho type when/if you piss them off enough.
 

BigBill

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 29, 2001
Messages
532
Reaction score
15
Location
Albuquerque NM
Was it her

multiple piercings in intimate places, or the fact that she offered to show them to you that convinced you this was a 'mature' person.

Just curious.
 
Top