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TheLadiesMan said:
Dude, a single mother with 3 kids? Really?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
My next door neighbor....
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Dude, a single mother with 3 kids? Really?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Actually, about a dozen years ago, I had an assistant in her early 30s, married, had three small kids. You wouldn't know it. Hot. Very hot, leggy, slender, long haired blond. AND... it got to where she'd mumble things under her breath when I'd talk about my dating exploits like, "now I know what you like" and "wish that were me" kind of stuff. And I'm thinking, did I hear her right?
So one day she calls me at home to ask if she can come over, she bought something for me. Okay. She comes over and is wearing the tightest damn pants, like a second skin. Really showed off the shape of her lovely little butt. She had bought a couple of little things to hang on the wall. I know the real reason she was there was to f@ck. But she's married, I know her husband, and she's my worker. I would've LOVED to nail her, still would as a matter of fact, but I can't say it would've been a good move. Then I met someone soon after and got involved.
I did contact her a couple of years ago, and when she answered the phone, I said, "Hi" and she blurted out,. "Hi HONEY!!!!" She mistook me for someone else, and since I don't sound like her husband, I'm guessing I must've sounded like her lover. Oh man! Yeah, so, we spoke a bit but you could see she wasn't interested anymore, I suppose she had her boy toy.
Buit aside from my account of how a woman can indeed be hot even after popping out three kids, to the OP here's another thought:
If she's a SINGLE mom with THREE kids, her bait of sex could be to hook a dad who'll help support them all. Wear two gloves.
So one day she calls me at home to ask if she can come over, she bought something for me. Okay. She comes over and is wearing the tightest damn pants, like a second skin. Really showed off the shape of her lovely little butt. She had bought a couple of little things to hang on the wall. I know the real reason she was there was to f@ck. But she's married, I know her husband, and she's my worker. I would've LOVED to nail her, still would as a matter of fact, but I can't say it would've been a good move. Then I met someone soon after and got involved.
I did contact her a couple of years ago, and when she answered the phone, I said, "Hi" and she blurted out,. "Hi HONEY!!!!" She mistook me for someone else, and since I don't sound like her husband, I'm guessing I must've sounded like her lover. Oh man! Yeah, so, we spoke a bit but you could see she wasn't interested anymore, I suppose she had her boy toy.
Buit aside from my account of how a woman can indeed be hot even after popping out three kids, to the OP here's another thought:
If she's a SINGLE mom with THREE kids, her bait of sex could be to hook a dad who'll help support them all. Wear two gloves.