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TheLadiesMan said:
Dude, a single mother with 3 kids? Really?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
My next door neighbor....
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Dude, a single mother with 3 kids? Really?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Actually, about a dozen years ago, I had an assistant in her early 30s, married, had three small kids. You wouldn't know it. Hot. Very hot, leggy, slender, long haired blond. AND... it got to where she'd mumble things under her breath when I'd talk about my dating exploits like, "now I know what you like" and "wish that were me" kind of stuff. And I'm thinking, did I hear her right?
So one day she calls me at home to ask if she can come over, she bought something for me. Okay. She comes over and is wearing the tightest damn pants, like a second skin. Really showed off the shape of her lovely little butt. She had bought a couple of little things to hang on the wall. I know the real reason she was there was to f@ck. But she's married, I know her husband, and she's my worker. I would've LOVED to nail her, still would as a matter of fact, but I can't say it would've been a good move. Then I met someone soon after and got involved.
I did contact her a couple of years ago, and when she answered the phone, I said, "Hi" and she blurted out,. "Hi HONEY!!!!" She mistook me for someone else, and since I don't sound like her husband, I'm guessing I must've sounded like her lover. Oh man! Yeah, so, we spoke a bit but you could see she wasn't interested anymore, I suppose she had her boy toy.
Buit aside from my account of how a woman can indeed be hot even after popping out three kids, to the OP here's another thought:
If she's a SINGLE mom with THREE kids, her bait of sex could be to hook a dad who'll help support them all. Wear two gloves.
So one day she calls me at home to ask if she can come over, she bought something for me. Okay. She comes over and is wearing the tightest damn pants, like a second skin. Really showed off the shape of her lovely little butt. She had bought a couple of little things to hang on the wall. I know the real reason she was there was to f@ck. But she's married, I know her husband, and she's my worker. I would've LOVED to nail her, still would as a matter of fact, but I can't say it would've been a good move. Then I met someone soon after and got involved.
I did contact her a couple of years ago, and when she answered the phone, I said, "Hi" and she blurted out,. "Hi HONEY!!!!" She mistook me for someone else, and since I don't sound like her husband, I'm guessing I must've sounded like her lover. Oh man! Yeah, so, we spoke a bit but you could see she wasn't interested anymore, I suppose she had her boy toy.
Buit aside from my account of how a woman can indeed be hot even after popping out three kids, to the OP here's another thought:
If she's a SINGLE mom with THREE kids, her bait of sex could be to hook a dad who'll help support them all. Wear two gloves.