"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My new Internet Ad, What is Wrong?

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Originally posted by Marcopolo
I sent out about 20 letters last week and got nothing. I used to get several winks a week and now almost nothing. And I really thought my ad was good but apparently not.

Any advice on what I am doing that is not working now?
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Well, there are several things:
1. Waita bit longer than "less than a week"
2. 20 is not a lot. if you send 50 and got nothing, then for sure there would be somthing wrong.
3. Whom you sent 20 emails? You may not realize it, but you may just become more picky. I can easily sent 20 emails to some HB10 with cute pics, and they even would nto look at my profile.
Probably you send then to a) already busy dating women b) hot chicks with pics c) somebody who didn't like your type.
It is very easy to combine a+b+c and got nothing out of 20.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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