"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My new Internet Ad, What is Wrong?

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Originally posted by Marcopolo
I sent out about 20 letters last week and got nothing. I used to get several winks a week and now almost nothing. And I really thought my ad was good but apparently not.

Any advice on what I am doing that is not working now?
Well, there are several things:
1. Waita bit longer than "less than a week"
2. 20 is not a lot. if you send 50 and got nothing, then for sure there would be somthing wrong.
3. Whom you sent 20 emails? You may not realize it, but you may just become more picky. I can easily sent 20 emails to some HB10 with cute pics, and they even would nto look at my profile.
Probably you send then to a) already busy dating women b) hot chicks with pics c) somebody who didn't like your type.
It is very easy to combine a+b+c and got nothing out of 20.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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