"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So lately I've been going from girl to girl when 2 weeks ago I realized what I really want...a LTR! So this girl (A) and I started hooking up and this is the girl I want togo out wiht. Now we hooked up 3 times thus far and I think we both have the same intentions. Now the last time we hookedup was this past thursday (she wanted to say goodbye before I left.)

Do you guys think she'll remain interest even thuogh I'll be gone for a week? I mean last night I texted her asking how her night went and her response was "sucked...woulda been better with you here" but that was only after me being gone for 1 night. I really do like this girl so anything you guys could tell me to help her stay attracted for this week would be great!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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well have a little fun with her right before u leave then dont make any contact with her for that week your gone..... dont like call her and say that u miss her and shi\t like that.... and after uve come back wait a day or two before u call her... shel be going insane wondering whats happenin.... do NOT call her right after uve come back , that will sound like uve just been dying to talk to her and thats she soo cool... i not saying u should be mean to her or anything , just a little cat and the string game.... show the cat a little fun with the string then put it away then give it back again after a while , the cat will want to play with the string much more now.... =)

oh and by string no i didnt mean your penis and by cat yes i meant the chick...

hope this helps mate peace =)
 

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ehrrrmmm...thats a lil late...i already texted her yesterday and about the non talking to herwhen i get back....her parents are gone until the night AFTER i get back so i kinda wanna go over there the day i get back to get some afternoon delight lol....unlses you guys think that it would hurt me overall.
 

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Originally posted by toddC
ehrrrmmm...thats a lil late...i already texted her yesterday and about the non talking to herwhen i get back....her parents are gone until the night AFTER i get back so i kinda wanna go over there the day i get back to get some afternoon delight lol....unlses you guys think that it would hurt me overall.
hmm ... if she invited you then go ... i guess youl get some afternoon delight...... just dont keep texting her and **** too much.... wait till you get back and see her face to face , come a little late not like an hour or so , just 10 - 15 minutes late... dont bring a big bush of flowers or any candy or ****.... read the bible about sex and stuff and i think your good to go.....
 

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oh and be shure to smell nice not too much cologne , after shave perfume or whatever you use but just enough so that she can smell it and wants to get closer to you.... be shure to brush your teeth have gum in your pocket and a rubber ....


oh btw im asuming that u havent had sex yet so thats why im posting all this crap....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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trust me i wasn't bringing anything but i'm here until the friday coming up....you don't think thats a little long not to talk to this gilr?
 

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good god

how the hell should we know?

she might be flaky and lose interest in a week, or she might be obsessed with you.

the situation is unique to you, and only you can decide if she'll lose interest. without having met and dated her I have no freakin' clue and neither does anybody else.

here's an idea: why don't you just have some confidence, enjoy your vacation, and assume that she'll be waiting for you when you get back?
 

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nah .... five days , just think of how much shell want you when you get back..... just gotta stay strong...... if she txts u , then wai atleats half a day and dont send her more then three texts at most , after that say that uve got to go but you talk to her another time.... and just think of how crazy shell be for you when you get back.... =)

so to sum up do not contact her u can reply if she contacts you but not too much, sum it up fast and dont say **** like i miss you and luv you crap.... and when u get back be shure to get a rubber , u dont wanna spend 18 years because of one single mistake.... bring two or three rubbers..... ur probably gonna blow the first one real fast..... and do read ythe dj bible there are some amazingly helpful posts on sex and such....

peace hope this helps....
 

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also about friday when i come home....she has told me her parents are going to be away however she never officially invited me over...should i bring this up to her on like thursday or something or let her bring it up to me?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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