"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So lately I've been going from girl to girl when 2 weeks ago I realized what I really want...a LTR! So this girl (A) and I started hooking up and this is the girl I want togo out wiht. Now we hooked up 3 times thus far and I think we both have the same intentions. Now the last time we hookedup was this past thursday (she wanted to say goodbye before I left.)

Do you guys think she'll remain interest even thuogh I'll be gone for a week? I mean last night I texted her asking how her night went and her response was "sucked...woulda been better with you here" but that was only after me being gone for 1 night. I really do like this girl so anything you guys could tell me to help her stay attracted for this week would be great!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well have a little fun with her right before u leave then dont make any contact with her for that week your gone..... dont like call her and say that u miss her and shi\t like that.... and after uve come back wait a day or two before u call her... shel be going insane wondering whats happenin.... do NOT call her right after uve come back , that will sound like uve just been dying to talk to her and thats she soo cool... i not saying u should be mean to her or anything , just a little cat and the string game.... show the cat a little fun with the string then put it away then give it back again after a while , the cat will want to play with the string much more now.... =)

oh and by string no i didnt mean your penis and by cat yes i meant the chick...

hope this helps mate peace =)
 

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ehrrrmmm...thats a lil late...i already texted her yesterday and about the non talking to herwhen i get back....her parents are gone until the night AFTER i get back so i kinda wanna go over there the day i get back to get some afternoon delight lol....unlses you guys think that it would hurt me overall.
 

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Originally posted by toddC
ehrrrmmm...thats a lil late...i already texted her yesterday and about the non talking to herwhen i get back....her parents are gone until the night AFTER i get back so i kinda wanna go over there the day i get back to get some afternoon delight lol....unlses you guys think that it would hurt me overall.
hmm ... if she invited you then go ... i guess youl get some afternoon delight...... just dont keep texting her and **** too much.... wait till you get back and see her face to face , come a little late not like an hour or so , just 10 - 15 minutes late... dont bring a big bush of flowers or any candy or ****.... read the bible about sex and stuff and i think your good to go.....
 

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oh and be shure to smell nice not too much cologne , after shave perfume or whatever you use but just enough so that she can smell it and wants to get closer to you.... be shure to brush your teeth have gum in your pocket and a rubber ....


oh btw im asuming that u havent had sex yet so thats why im posting all this crap....
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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trust me i wasn't bringing anything but i'm here until the friday coming up....you don't think thats a little long not to talk to this gilr?
 

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good god

how the hell should we know?

she might be flaky and lose interest in a week, or she might be obsessed with you.

the situation is unique to you, and only you can decide if she'll lose interest. without having met and dated her I have no freakin' clue and neither does anybody else.

here's an idea: why don't you just have some confidence, enjoy your vacation, and assume that she'll be waiting for you when you get back?
 

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nah .... five days , just think of how much shell want you when you get back..... just gotta stay strong...... if she txts u , then wai atleats half a day and dont send her more then three texts at most , after that say that uve got to go but you talk to her another time.... and just think of how crazy shell be for you when you get back.... =)

so to sum up do not contact her u can reply if she contacts you but not too much, sum it up fast and dont say **** like i miss you and luv you crap.... and when u get back be shure to get a rubber , u dont wanna spend 18 years because of one single mistake.... bring two or three rubbers..... ur probably gonna blow the first one real fast..... and do read ythe dj bible there are some amazingly helpful posts on sex and such....

peace hope this helps....
 

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also about friday when i come home....she has told me her parents are going to be away however she never officially invited me over...should i bring this up to her on like thursday or something or let her bring it up to me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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