"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My neck hurts

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Last night was 'rear naked choke hold night' at MMA class, and now my neck hurts. From what I remember, I think I'm supposed to avoid heat for at least three days, and use just ice. What is the best icing routine? Is it 20 minutes on/off as much as possible? Is a sore neck a pain that can be ignored, or do I wait for it to stop hurting so I don't hurt it worse?

If anyone has any other sore neck advice, it would be appreciated.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bible_Belt said:
Last night was 'rear naked choke hold night' at MMA class, and now my neck hurts. From what I remember, I think I'm supposed to avoid heat for at least three days, and use just ice. What is the best icing routine? Is it 20 minutes on/off as much as possible? Is a sore neck a pain that can be ignored, or do I wait for it to stop hurting so I don't hurt it worse?

If anyone has any other sore neck advice, it would be appreciated.

i would ice it 3 times a day for 20mins each, massage it 3 times a day or get a chick to, and stretch it out 3 times a day do this for 3 days then start adding heat after that
 

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It's aesthetically therapeutic to bite the pillow to throw your neck back into whack.

If that doesn't work I suggest a Chiropractor for the neck and a Proctologist for that sore ass.

Had to fvck with you a little bit Bible Humper!

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I have a disc herniation of C6-C7. Yet I still lift heavy and also do brazilian jiu-jitsu. I have alot of knowledge when it comes to neck injuries. If I were you I would give it some time before I go to the DR unless the pain is intolerable.

Even if you did hurt your neck bad( Disc herniation) These are your 4 options.

1. Pain medicine.
2. Physical therapy.
3. Cervical injection.
4. Surgery.

I found what helped me most with injuries is positive thinking. Read books by John sarno. Its about mindbody disorders and its very interesting.

What helped my neck the most was lying in a heating pad every night before bed. My pain was chronic. In your case you would want to ice it and spend some time in a steam room or better yet a jacuzzi.
 

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Thanks for the replies, even you, karma, learning to fight as an art is taking the fight out of me in day-to-day living.

I think it is just a muscle strain, nothing to do with vertebrae thankfully. When it gets right again, I am going to start doing neck bridges and whatever I can to get a stronger neck. Being tall gives an advantage in leverage when grappling, but the downside in bjj is that us taller guys tend to have a nice long neck for choking. Mine is going to be my weak point unless I work on it.
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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