"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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my nail-biting problem

nelysses

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I've been biting my nails constantly since childhood. My blood tests are normal. My doctor said I have chronic stress, but honestly, I didn't pay much attention to it, etc., I'm skipping over that part.
I've stopped this habit a week ago. I don't bite my nails anymore. But the problem is that black deposits form on the tips of my nails and they never come off. Although AI says it's dead pigments and not dirt, it looks really ugly. My nail tips look black. Has anyone else experienced this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Aguirre

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You definitely have some stress or anxiety. Maybe you’ve got a dirty mouth, too; some kind of candida fungus keeping you anxious and are transferring it to your fingers by mouth.

Try researching or trying herbal supplements like ashwagandha or something to help calm down.

Dip your fingers in apple cider vinegar so every time you bit down you’ll be reminded of how nasty your habit is.
 
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