"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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My muscles are my main attractant.. but winters here... : (

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Yea I've been working out for 3+ years and have a pretty good physique so I always get some girls checking me out when I wear t-shirts and stuff, but winters coming now and I won't get to wear t-shirts anymore... anybody else in this situation? Wat to do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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War Against Betaism

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I'm also pretty buff. Your main weapons should be your game, not your guns.
 
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smooth guy

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dress nicely and work on your game.
 
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TT2CiN said:
Yea I've been working out for 3+ years and have a pretty good physique so I always get some girls checking me out when I wear t-shirts and stuff, but winters coming now and I won't get to wear t-shirts anymore... anybody else in this situation? Wat to do?
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If you're in clubs tho you can still wear gym vests/fitted tops to show off the body.
 
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Mad Maniac is totally right... tanktops + afterhours club or no shirt + afterhours club = having most girls in that place checking u out, giving u IOIs, etc.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I’m also built very well, I’m a swimmer. Most women and, ahem, even gay men, are impressed by my body. But I never go out of the way to show it off. Not really. Still everyone seems to know, even if I’m wearing lose fitting clothes. In fact it might be to one’s advantage not to show too much skin. Get the women’s imaginations going.
 
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