"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

My muscles are my main attractant.. but winters here... : (

TT2CiN

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 6, 2007
Messages
25
Reaction score
0
Yea I've been working out for 3+ years and have a pretty good physique so I always get some girls checking me out when I wear t-shirts and stuff, but winters coming now and I won't get to wear t-shirts anymore... anybody else in this situation? Wat to do?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

Read more...

War Against Betaism

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 19, 2007
Messages
1,600
Reaction score
28
Location
California
I'm also pretty buff. Your main weapons should be your game, not your guns.
 

smooth guy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 15, 2007
Messages
306
Reaction score
3
dress nicely and work on your game.
 

Mad Manic

Banned
Joined
Aug 11, 2007
Messages
1,038
Reaction score
7
Location
Leeds, UK
TT2CiN said:
Yea I've been working out for 3+ years and have a pretty good physique so I always get some girls checking me out when I wear t-shirts and stuff, but winters coming now and I won't get to wear t-shirts anymore... anybody else in this situation? Wat to do?
If you're in clubs tho you can still wear gym vests/fitted tops to show off the body.
 

Fuglydude

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 13, 2006
Messages
1,541
Reaction score
50
Location
Alberta, Canada
Mad Maniac is totally right... tanktops + afterhours club or no shirt + afterhours club = having most girls in that place checking u out, giving u IOIs, etc.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

Read more...

potato

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 15, 2007
Messages
474
Reaction score
17
I’m also built very well, I’m a swimmer. Most women and, ahem, even gay men, are impressed by my body. But I never go out of the way to show it off. Not really. Still everyone seems to know, even if I’m wearing lose fitting clothes. In fact it might be to one’s advantage not to show too much skin. Get the women’s imaginations going.
 
Top