"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My most ballsy move ever...

Mizzikiel

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Today I was at work ... in my stupid Tim Hortons uniform (Probably the least flattering thing a man could wear) When the girl who i've been working on for the last week comes in. She was with a guy who I know if going after her too. She gets to the counter, her and i joke around, then I decide to do the most ballsy thing ever (My two co-workers, both female, we're absolutely amazed when I did this and told me that I am one of the most courageous guys they know)

I asked her out. Infront of a guy who took her to the carnival, infront of a guy who has been trying to get with her for the past 2 months, I asked her out. I said "You're free Tuesday right? Good, Amikara (Japanese restaruant I'm taking her to since I know shes never had Japanese food before) for Lunch, I'll pick you up at 1".

She was like yeah, definitely, the guy just looked pissed, but hey, he should have taken his chance.

My co-workers, like I said, couldn't believe that I did what I did, and sure, i asked her out wearing the dorkiest thing I could, but I'm damn proud of myself for that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sam3083

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Inspiration for me... Im yet to do anything like that
 

Lust

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Nice mate,

I had the wrong impression of "Ballsy".

Yesterday afternoon a group of asians were having a dance off, there was like 100 people gathered around, half chicks and I walk in (Not knowing how to dance at all) and drop my pants.

Then did that 70s move popularized by John Travolta.

You know, where you point your hands up in the air? Ahh ah ah ah staying alive stayin alive, ah ah ah ah stayin aliiiiiiiiiiiiveeee.

:)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dark Chivalry

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Mizzikiel said:
I asked her out. Infront of a guy who took her to the carnival, infront of a guy who has been trying to get with her for the past 2 months, I asked her out. I said "You're free Tuesday right? Good, Amikara (Japanese restaruant I'm taking her to since I know shes never had Japanese food before) for Lunch, I'll pick you up at 1".
Outstanding!:up:

You have bigger nuts than many guys twice your age.
 

Mizzikiel

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thankyou, and its funny, because 2 months ago I would have been afraid to even talk to a girl like her, but I realized (thanks in no small part to this site) there is no harm in trying, and its better to do and get rejected then not try at all. So I'm not longer even gettin nervous when I ask women for their numbers and that.
 

Alittude

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Mate that was an awesome move and well done you have given inspiration too myself and a few others and look where confidence gets you.
 

Plec07

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Well done dude. Truely inspirational. Others can learn a lot from what you just did there.
 
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