“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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My most ballsy move ever...

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Today I was at work ... in my stupid Tim Hortons uniform (Probably the least flattering thing a man could wear) When the girl who i've been working on for the last week comes in. She was with a guy who I know if going after her too. She gets to the counter, her and i joke around, then I decide to do the most ballsy thing ever (My two co-workers, both female, we're absolutely amazed when I did this and told me that I am one of the most courageous guys they know)

I asked her out. Infront of a guy who took her to the carnival, infront of a guy who has been trying to get with her for the past 2 months, I asked her out. I said "You're free Tuesday right? Good, Amikara (Japanese restaruant I'm taking her to since I know shes never had Japanese food before) for Lunch, I'll pick you up at 1".

She was like yeah, definitely, the guy just looked pissed, but hey, he should have taken his chance.

My co-workers, like I said, couldn't believe that I did what I did, and sure, i asked her out wearing the dorkiest thing I could, but I'm damn proud of myself for that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Inspiration for me... Im yet to do anything like that
 
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Nice mate,

I had the wrong impression of "Ballsy".

Yesterday afternoon a group of asians were having a dance off, there was like 100 people gathered around, half chicks and I walk in (Not knowing how to dance at all) and drop my pants.

Then did that 70s move popularized by John Travolta.

You know, where you point your hands up in the air? Ahh ah ah ah staying alive stayin alive, ah ah ah ah stayin aliiiiiiiiiiiiveeee.

:)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dark Chivalry

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Mizzikiel said:
I asked her out. Infront of a guy who took her to the carnival, infront of a guy who has been trying to get with her for the past 2 months, I asked her out. I said "You're free Tuesday right? Good, Amikara (Japanese restaruant I'm taking her to since I know shes never had Japanese food before) for Lunch, I'll pick you up at 1".
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Outstanding!:up:

You have bigger nuts than many guys twice your age.
 
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thankyou, and its funny, because 2 months ago I would have been afraid to even talk to a girl like her, but I realized (thanks in no small part to this site) there is no harm in trying, and its better to do and get rejected then not try at all. So I'm not longer even gettin nervous when I ask women for their numbers and that.
 
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Mate that was an awesome move and well done you have given inspiration too myself and a few others and look where confidence gets you.
 
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Well done dude. Truely inspirational. Others can learn a lot from what you just did there.
 
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