My mind is only comfortable mainly approaching black women.

[Shootin4Dreams]

I've pretty much only been with black women, but how do I fix this? I want to approach any kind of woman I see and not just see black women. How can I open my mind up to all kinds of women and feel comfortable?

 

[Maximus Rex]

There's only the one way to fix this, which the same way you deal with approach anxiety, you approach women of other races that you find attractive.

 

[El Payaso]

Lol. What is it about white or asian or hispanic or whatever women that scares you?

 

[fastlife]

All of those mental barriers in your head are socially conditioned. I'm not trying to discount the extent of that social conditioning, just the validity of it in 2015. Your thoughts shouldn't be 'I'm black. She's white. I need to accommodate my approach to acknowledge those differences.' People are people. Women are women. Some girls won't be down. So what? I'm not going to lie and pretend that every white girl's gonna be receptive; that's just not reality.

But even in the deep south most of my black friends have pulled snow bunnies at some point--and not just overweight hoodrat white chicks; I'm talking preppy upper middle class daddy's little girls.

 

[dustmuffin]

I've pretty much only been with black women, but how do I fix this? I want to approach any kind of woman I see and not just see black women. How can I open my mind up to all kinds of women and feel comfortable?

Just do it.

All of those mental barriers in your head are socially conditioned. I'm not trying to discount the extent of that social conditioning, just the validity of it in 2015. Your thoughts shouldn't be 'I'm black. She's white. I need to accommodate my approach to acknowledge those differences.' People are people. Women are women. Some girls won't be down. So what? I'm not going to lie and pretend that every white girl's gonna be receptive; that's just not reality.

But even in the deep south most of my black friends have pulled snow bunnies at some point--and not just overweight hoodrat white chicks; I'm talking preppy upper middle class daddy's little girls.

He is a white guy.