“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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MY LTR wants more love from me

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She says that Im her life AND I know it, that she puts me in front of everything and I don’t do the same that I don’t love her the same way.
I love her but IN my way that’s what i told her, also I said to her well maybe you need someone that could express his feelings better with you I cant do nothing else that’s the way I am she told me no I want you But all I want is a little more from you.

I hate this **** anybody been there...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What kind of question is this????

Go write a letter to Ann Landers, she deals with relationships. This is dating and seduction. Close this topic, no one else reply!
 

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You are only 22... "I am who i am. Take it or leave it."

She is essentially telling you that her life revolves around you. She is an AFC female. She should be happy with or without you. Bottomline is that its her problem not your problem.
 

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If she wants more loving take out your wang and do something about it.
 

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Bussey said:
What kind of question is this????

Go write a letter to Ann Landers, she deals with relationships. This is dating and seduction. Close this topic, no one else reply!

STFU I been here longer than you so STFU and **** your self
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bussey said:
What kind of question is this????

Go write a letter to Ann Landers, she deals with relationships. This is dating and seduction. Close this topic, no one else reply!
This entire website is concerned with relationship development.

If you have nothing constructive to contribute to the discussion, don't contribute at all.
 

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LOL, hahaha, you're all too funny. Seriously though, long term relationships have no place here. :yes: :rock:
 

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Dayr0n said:
She says that Im her life AND I know it, that she puts me in front of everything and I don’t do the same that I don’t love her the same way.
I love her but IN my way that’s what i told her, also I said to her well maybe you need someone that could express his feelings better with you I cant do nothing else that’s the way I am she told me no I want you But all I want is a little more from you.

I hate this **** anybody been there...
Hate to tell you this but they key to keeping a relationship long term is a willingness to come to an compromise about loving one another how the other person wants to be loved. You've gotta ask yourself how much you're willing to put into the compromise.
 

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All is back to normal. She said to me "Dayr0n all I want from you is that you show me a little bit more love" I told her I try my best but you know if your not happy with the way I am you know what to do.

I love her but I don’t like showing my feelings too much just the right amount.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dayr0n said:
I love her but I don’t like showing my feelings too much just the right amount.
If you haven't read my article, see the tip in my signature. Love isn't about wordy expressions. Love is all about passion. You demonstrate passion through your actions, your behavior, and more importantly, your approach toward your life. If you are passionate in your approach, you need not worry about the measure of your emotions.
 

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flexion_ said:
She should be happy with or without you. Bottomline is that its her problem not your problem.
NAILED for truth.

And she is happy or she'd be getting railed by someone else, you wouldnt be here thinking you have TIME to "improve" on things if this really was a problem to her, it doesnt work like that, chicks dont think and say "well if he doesnt show me he (insert problem) me then I'm gone".

Thats just not how it works.

Your gone when and if you become socially lacking and or boring compared to her next suitor.

Also and this may blow your mind, chicks dont next guys for reasons of "lack of love".

She's simply (and probably inadvertently but who cares really) trying to tip your scale of power.
 

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Your gone when and if you become socially lacking and or boring compared to her next suitor.
I agree with this part.

Also and this may blow your mind, chicks dont next guys for reasons of "lack of love".
But I disagree with this. Girls who aren't getting the attention they crave from their boyfriends are easier to pull than single girls. Just give them the attention they're lacking and they're yours.

However, too much attention and they're gone. You need to mix it up a little and be unpredictable with it.
 

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Bussey said:
Seriously though, long term relationships have no place here.
Would you mind posting a list of your rules so that we can all know what we can and cannot discuss on SoSuave?

:crackup:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dayr0n said:
She says that Im her life AND I know it, that she puts me in front of everything and I don’t do the same that I don’t love her the same way.
I love her but IN my way that’s what i told her, also I said to her well maybe you need someone that could express his feelings better with you I cant do nothing else that’s the way I am she told me no I want you But all I want is a little more from you.

I hate this **** anybody been there...

"i yam what i yam" - popeye
 

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She never mention that we were going to brake up ohhh if she says that I dump her ass so ****ing bad.

She told me yesterday that we should do something really romantic for our anniversary. I think she needs more romance from me like every now and then show her some appreciation and love.
 

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Jariel said:
I agree with this part.

But I disagree with this. Girls who aren't getting the attention they crave from their boyfriends are easier to pull than single girls. Just give them the attention they're lacking and they're yours.

However, too much attention and they're gone. You need to mix it up a little and be unpredictable with it.
Love and attention have nothing to do with each other, dont be a fvckwit and try to twist my sh!t just cause I'm awesome jariella, you after some attention or what? thats weak even for you.

Btw what happened to that heart felt goodbye speech you made chump?
 

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Love and attention have nothing to do with each other, dont be a fvckwit and try to twist my sh!t just cause I'm awesome jariella, you after some attention or what? thats weak even for you.
Hmm, that made little sense. I always knew you had social problems, but now you're typing like a retarded 7 year old. Have you had any head injuries recently? Get yourself checked out dude!

Btw what happened to that heart felt goodbye speech you made chump?
In short, I got complacent and returned mainly for the motivation and advice of the H&F forum.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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