"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My love life has gone downhill

Serg897

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I'll try to make this brief.

Ive been on this site for many years (check the date I registered). Mostly a lurker, although there was a time when I posted often.

Im in college now. Sophomore. In high school, I was terrific with the ladies. I had 5 girlfriends, and I was never single for more than a few months the final two years.

Now...somehow Ive lost it. I had a terrible break-up with my last girlfriend over a year ago, and because I was so infatuated with her the recovery was long and painfull. Since then Ive been looking. Im alright with getting numbers, but I hardly ever make it past that stage - its like I almost always get rejected before I even go on the first date.

Im just not sure whats going on - what led me to type this is another specific situation with a girl that seems to be headed towards another failure. I'll post specifics about that if people want to. I just wanted to keep this initial post short.

Thanks for any feedback.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Adrian

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Bro after a LTR you lose game. Thats what they'll do to you. You need to change your attitude and start from scratch agian. You'll pick up on yourself faster this time. Just make sure you lose the AFC habits you picked up over that period of time.
 

gherald

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its because you act needy because you want to replace you ex...

keep your cool....just give it time and you will definitely come back to shape
 
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