"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My love life has gone downhill

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Serg897

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I'll try to make this brief.

Ive been on this site for many years (check the date I registered). Mostly a lurker, although there was a time when I posted often.

Im in college now. Sophomore. In high school, I was terrific with the ladies. I had 5 girlfriends, and I was never single for more than a few months the final two years.

Now...somehow Ive lost it. I had a terrible break-up with my last girlfriend over a year ago, and because I was so infatuated with her the recovery was long and painfull. Since then Ive been looking. Im alright with getting numbers, but I hardly ever make it past that stage - its like I almost always get rejected before I even go on the first date.

Im just not sure whats going on - what led me to type this is another specific situation with a girl that seems to be headed towards another failure. I'll post specifics about that if people want to. I just wanted to keep this initial post short.

Thanks for any feedback.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bro after a LTR you lose game. Thats what they'll do to you. You need to change your attitude and start from scratch agian. You'll pick up on yourself faster this time. Just make sure you lose the AFC habits you picked up over that period of time.
 
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its because you act needy because you want to replace you ex...

keep your cool....just give it time and you will definitely come back to shape
 
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