"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My love life has gone downhill

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Serg897

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I'll try to make this brief.

Ive been on this site for many years (check the date I registered). Mostly a lurker, although there was a time when I posted often.

Im in college now. Sophomore. In high school, I was terrific with the ladies. I had 5 girlfriends, and I was never single for more than a few months the final two years.

Now...somehow Ive lost it. I had a terrible break-up with my last girlfriend over a year ago, and because I was so infatuated with her the recovery was long and painfull. Since then Ive been looking. Im alright with getting numbers, but I hardly ever make it past that stage - its like I almost always get rejected before I even go on the first date.

Im just not sure whats going on - what led me to type this is another specific situation with a girl that seems to be headed towards another failure. I'll post specifics about that if people want to. I just wanted to keep this initial post short.

Thanks for any feedback.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bro after a LTR you lose game. Thats what they'll do to you. You need to change your attitude and start from scratch agian. You'll pick up on yourself faster this time. Just make sure you lose the AFC habits you picked up over that period of time.
 
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its because you act needy because you want to replace you ex...

keep your cool....just give it time and you will definitely come back to shape
 
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