"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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my looks update

joe45

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well i shop at old navy can't get buy antyhin more $$ than that. i need a job, couldn;t get one when i finsihed my 1 yr IT certifacte program-gettin IT tech support work. that sucks. i do my workouts at home-go some weights and all. all right now i am getting rid of the acme. i posted my pic on hot or not right now i am 3.7 at 71 votes.

oh yea with my haircut it is a recent cut to tell u.

oh yea do u guys think i look a little like keanu reeves i think i do, without the euro look though. i been told mty another member in another forum that i look like dat phan-funnies person
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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frivolousz21

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you need to work ur inner game to a 10..that will def offset your looks and image problem you have!

good luck
 

Good_ol_boy

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"i need a job, couldn;t get one when i finsihed my 1 yr IT certifacte program-gettin IT tech support work. that sucks."

If I'm translating this correctly---

1-You took a course that lasted 1 year and got a certificate.

2-You need a job.

3-Getting a job in IT tech support sucks, so you either
a-turned down job offers or
b- didn't apply expecting something better.

If I am translating this correctly, my advice to you is:

You have to start somewhere, with a 1 year certificate, you're never going to be hired as a CIO or CTO (or even a project lead position); get some experiance!
Tech support may "suck", but it'll give you tons of experiance, and a "track record".

Then you will make some $$ to shop somewhere other than Old Navy.

Jobs are like your DJ experiance, you didn't start out sarging Birtiany Spears.

By the way, if I didn't translate what you wrote correctly,--- Never Mind!:D
 
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