"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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my looks update

joe45

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well i shop at old navy can't get buy antyhin more $$ than that. i need a job, couldn;t get one when i finsihed my 1 yr IT certifacte program-gettin IT tech support work. that sucks. i do my workouts at home-go some weights and all. all right now i am getting rid of the acme. i posted my pic on hot or not right now i am 3.7 at 71 votes.

oh yea with my haircut it is a recent cut to tell u.

oh yea do u guys think i look a little like keanu reeves i think i do, without the euro look though. i been told mty another member in another forum that i look like dat phan-funnies person
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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frivolousz21

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you need to work ur inner game to a 10..that will def offset your looks and image problem you have!

good luck
 

Good_ol_boy

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"i need a job, couldn;t get one when i finsihed my 1 yr IT certifacte program-gettin IT tech support work. that sucks."

If I'm translating this correctly---

1-You took a course that lasted 1 year and got a certificate.

2-You need a job.

3-Getting a job in IT tech support sucks, so you either
a-turned down job offers or
b- didn't apply expecting something better.

If I am translating this correctly, my advice to you is:

You have to start somewhere, with a 1 year certificate, you're never going to be hired as a CIO or CTO (or even a project lead position); get some experiance!
Tech support may "suck", but it'll give you tons of experiance, and a "track record".

Then you will make some $$ to shop somewhere other than Old Navy.

Jobs are like your DJ experiance, you didn't start out sarging Birtiany Spears.

By the way, if I didn't translate what you wrote correctly,--- Never Mind!:D
 
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