"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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my looks update

joe45

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well i shop at old navy can't get buy antyhin more $$ than that. i need a job, couldn;t get one when i finsihed my 1 yr IT certifacte program-gettin IT tech support work. that sucks. i do my workouts at home-go some weights and all. all right now i am getting rid of the acme. i posted my pic on hot or not right now i am 3.7 at 71 votes.

oh yea with my haircut it is a recent cut to tell u.

oh yea do u guys think i look a little like keanu reeves i think i do, without the euro look though. i been told mty another member in another forum that i look like dat phan-funnies person
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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frivolousz21

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you need to work ur inner game to a 10..that will def offset your looks and image problem you have!

good luck
 

Good_ol_boy

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"i need a job, couldn;t get one when i finsihed my 1 yr IT certifacte program-gettin IT tech support work. that sucks."

If I'm translating this correctly---

1-You took a course that lasted 1 year and got a certificate.

2-You need a job.

3-Getting a job in IT tech support sucks, so you either
a-turned down job offers or
b- didn't apply expecting something better.

If I am translating this correctly, my advice to you is:

You have to start somewhere, with a 1 year certificate, you're never going to be hired as a CIO or CTO (or even a project lead position); get some experiance!
Tech support may "suck", but it'll give you tons of experiance, and a "track record".

Then you will make some $$ to shop somewhere other than Old Navy.

Jobs are like your DJ experiance, you didn't start out sarging Birtiany Spears.

By the way, if I didn't translate what you wrote correctly,--- Never Mind!:D
 
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