My long thread about finding my sticking points and finally becoming successful...

[RichardTheFrog]

I know that I have all the tools necessary to be successful at attracting and ****ing women.

I am now on a mission to identify and eliminate all the obstacles (both external and internal) that are coming in my way.

I expect this to be a long post, and I don't want to keep creating new thread after thread so I will just keep adding to this one.

As I see it now, this is what is in my way...

1. I am not confident enough. I am not UNCONFIDENT... but I am also not supremely unshakably confident. Also, I think I rely on the perceptions of others for my confidence rather than having it come from within.

2. I don't make enough money. I make $87,000/year. That's pretty good... but I need to be making like $300,000/year or more. I really need to be in the top 1% of income in order to maximize my value. I'm smart... so why not capitalize on it.

3. I haven't gone out in nearly a month. Honestly, I don't think I've showered in a week, and I'm wearing the same clothes and boxers that I've been wearing for the past 4 days, during which time, I've probably jerked off about 50 times. Lol. This is a quick fix. Just take a shower, put on clean clothes and leave the house, especially to high-end places.

4. I'm not sexually aggressive enough. I was born shy and am still shy. But a lot of it is just not knowing what to say. No matter how much money I make or how much I've gone through... it won't matter if I don't create a powerful presence.

That being said... I've been awake for about 16 hours now... so I will probably be sleeping as opposed to going out tonight.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

In my opinion "sticking points" are actually excuses to keep me comfortable and average. I choose to use them to re-inforce doubt over certainty; conformity over uniqueness.

"Sticking points" are the antithesis of confidence.

Well whatever you want to call it.

 

[sph21]

I am now on a mission to identify and eliminate all the obstacles (both external and internal) that are coming in my way.

This is a good start

1. I am not confident enough. I am not UNCONFIDENT... but I am also not supremely unshakably confident. Also, I think I rely on the perceptions of others for my confidence rather than having it come from within.

I started to not care on the perceptions of others of me when I used my previous fvck ups as my strength rather than my weakness. I experienced hell on earth and I survived. That was something to be proud of.

Read these:

1. My two cents on confidence
2. Tip #2: Confidence

4. I'm not sexually aggressive enough.

You must accept your own sexuality and women's. We're all sexual creatures.

Read this: THE TEN COMMANDMENTS

I was born shy and am still shy.

I was like that. In fact, I was the shiest man I ever met. Then I realized that I needed to change that whatever it takes.

Read this: For all the SHY guys out there...

But a lot of it is just not knowing what to say. No matter how much money I make or how much I've gone through...

Read "Step 7: Conversation" from DJ Bible and don't forget to develop curiosity towards others. You can't be interesting if you're not interested in others.

it won't matter if I don't create a powerful presence.

Read The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene to learn how to be powerful.