Theres this girl in my class, she gives me mad EC and flips her hair at me when she sits near me, but she is usually across the room.
So we get paired up in twos for a project, we talk it up a bit and everything goes well, good EC and what not.
The next class when i walk in i see her out of the corner of my eye right when i walk in she seemed to fidget a lot and toss her hair, but i didn't look over.
At the end of the class I walk over to her right in the middle while everyone is sitting down, and she seems to move around a lot and i think she was wondering what the hell I was doing.
I told her, "You know you owe me a ride in you're car, right?" (the day before we had a conversation about our cars, I told her I was selling mine to buy one like hers), and we talk a little about them and then I ask her if she minds doing that... she said yeah and I asked for her number, and I got it.
I also asked her what she was doing that day and she said she had to stay at school to cheer for the game, I said ok, well I'll call you when the game is over around 8 and we can meet up. It's all good, right? Well... not really.
So I call her around 8:20 and I know shes with her cheerleader friends, I saw them at the ice cream place waiting for their other friend to get off work.
She tells me "Hey, I'm actually going to a friend's house so we can't do it tonight, be we can do it some other time." and I tell her ok, well maybe I'll call you tommorow she says "I have to work" and I say, "Yeah I don't know if tommorow is good for me either, but we'll see."
It's been about 6 days since I called her or talked to her, I didn't call her the rest of that weekend and I pretty much ignored her in class, but today in class I tried to make EC with her but she wouldn't look at me, but I knew that she knew I was looking at her, and sometimes I could see her looking at me out of the corner of my eye.
I'm planning right now to just build social proof with other cuties in that class and sort of disregard her, but I don't want her to lose interest. She seems shy but when I talk to her shes pretty outgoing.
I KNOW my next approach has to be with humor because my other approaches were somewhat serious and were mostly rapport building, I want to approach her soon but I don't want her thinking when I approach her, "Oh no, not this chump I blew off...". Because she did blow me off. But I don't know if she's still interested or not, but she is to some degree because she did give me her number, I just don't want to be annoying toward her.
Should I keep trying or should I just next this one?
If so, should I build more rapport or try to re-setup a meeting again?
Any advice/input is appreciated, thanks.
Jake
So we get paired up in twos for a project, we talk it up a bit and everything goes well, good EC and what not.
The next class when i walk in i see her out of the corner of my eye right when i walk in she seemed to fidget a lot and toss her hair, but i didn't look over.
At the end of the class I walk over to her right in the middle while everyone is sitting down, and she seems to move around a lot and i think she was wondering what the hell I was doing.
I told her, "You know you owe me a ride in you're car, right?" (the day before we had a conversation about our cars, I told her I was selling mine to buy one like hers), and we talk a little about them and then I ask her if she minds doing that... she said yeah and I asked for her number, and I got it.
I also asked her what she was doing that day and she said she had to stay at school to cheer for the game, I said ok, well I'll call you when the game is over around 8 and we can meet up. It's all good, right? Well... not really.
So I call her around 8:20 and I know shes with her cheerleader friends, I saw them at the ice cream place waiting for their other friend to get off work.
She tells me "Hey, I'm actually going to a friend's house so we can't do it tonight, be we can do it some other time." and I tell her ok, well maybe I'll call you tommorow she says "I have to work" and I say, "Yeah I don't know if tommorow is good for me either, but we'll see."
It's been about 6 days since I called her or talked to her, I didn't call her the rest of that weekend and I pretty much ignored her in class, but today in class I tried to make EC with her but she wouldn't look at me, but I knew that she knew I was looking at her, and sometimes I could see her looking at me out of the corner of my eye.
I'm planning right now to just build social proof with other cuties in that class and sort of disregard her, but I don't want her to lose interest. She seems shy but when I talk to her shes pretty outgoing.
I KNOW my next approach has to be with humor because my other approaches were somewhat serious and were mostly rapport building, I want to approach her soon but I don't want her thinking when I approach her, "Oh no, not this chump I blew off...". Because she did blow me off. But I don't know if she's still interested or not, but she is to some degree because she did give me her number, I just don't want to be annoying toward her.
Should I keep trying or should I just next this one?
If so, should I build more rapport or try to re-setup a meeting again?
Any advice/input is appreciated, thanks.
Jake