"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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my little dillema: expose how my friend may be cheating on his girl?

Serg897

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hey all

This is something thats been on my mind a lot for the past couple of days, and I seek some opinions on what would be the best thing to do.

A brief overview of the situation goes like this:

I have a girlfriend right know whom I like very much, and through the 2 months I have dated her there have been absolutely no real problems. Through this girlfriend, I hooked up my friend, ( lets call him Fred ), with one of my girlfriends friend ( lets call her Mary ). I consider myself responsible for this little hook-up, since I brought Fred to a party with Mary in mind, although my girlfriend played a big role in bringing them together.

Unfortunately, around the same time Fred and Mary got together Fred also met another girl. Now, Mary goes to another school that Fred and I do, and so does the new girl, but the new girls school is in the opposite direction.

So basically, Fred could easily get a dual relationship thing going. Normally, I wouldnt care so much about this, I am not into cheating on girls, and I would let this blow up in his face like it eventually will, but this time I care becuase:

a. Mary is a very attractive girl, and I cant understand how he would cheat on her with this other mediocre looking girl.

and b., the real reason, is that I dont know what the consequences would be with my girlfriend and her group if they found out by themselves eventually, since I know exactly what Fred is doing, and there is no way I could not know.

Basically, I feel guilty for hooking Mary up with such a dirtbag, and I am afraid of how it could affect me when it gets out.

So, what to do? Do nothing, or tell on him? Any input is appreciated. thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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CaptainSlinky

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I KNEW this was coming, Serg!


The answer is simple, introduce me to this pool of friends and I could accidently slip it off my tongue...

Or, we can lynch ..."Fred" and beat the **** out of him until he comes to his senses and picks "Mary". She's HOT.
 

SnatchJP

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Ignore it. You don't even know for sure if he's really cheating on her or just hanging out with this mediocre chick. (Like you said, why would he cheat with her?)

If anything happens, the chances of anyone blaming you are slim to none.

Otherwise, I'd agree that you should take Mary's side if anything does happen.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Serg897

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thanks to all who responded. I guess I will ignore it, becuase Snatch is problably right that there is little chance I will get blamed.

And Slinky speaks the truth. I must really emphazise Mary's hotness.
 

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Never tell someone that they are being cheated on. Its not a pretty picture. 9 times out of 10 they will think you are trying to destroy their relationship, and take the cheater's side.

Doing this would jeopardize your friendships. See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil.
 
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