"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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my little dillema: expose how my friend may be cheating on his girl?

Serg897

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hey all

This is something thats been on my mind a lot for the past couple of days, and I seek some opinions on what would be the best thing to do.

A brief overview of the situation goes like this:

I have a girlfriend right know whom I like very much, and through the 2 months I have dated her there have been absolutely no real problems. Through this girlfriend, I hooked up my friend, ( lets call him Fred ), with one of my girlfriends friend ( lets call her Mary ). I consider myself responsible for this little hook-up, since I brought Fred to a party with Mary in mind, although my girlfriend played a big role in bringing them together.

Unfortunately, around the same time Fred and Mary got together Fred also met another girl. Now, Mary goes to another school that Fred and I do, and so does the new girl, but the new girls school is in the opposite direction.

So basically, Fred could easily get a dual relationship thing going. Normally, I wouldnt care so much about this, I am not into cheating on girls, and I would let this blow up in his face like it eventually will, but this time I care becuase:

a. Mary is a very attractive girl, and I cant understand how he would cheat on her with this other mediocre looking girl.

and b., the real reason, is that I dont know what the consequences would be with my girlfriend and her group if they found out by themselves eventually, since I know exactly what Fred is doing, and there is no way I could not know.

Basically, I feel guilty for hooking Mary up with such a dirtbag, and I am afraid of how it could affect me when it gets out.

So, what to do? Do nothing, or tell on him? Any input is appreciated. thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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CaptainSlinky

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I KNEW this was coming, Serg!


The answer is simple, introduce me to this pool of friends and I could accidently slip it off my tongue...

Or, we can lynch ..."Fred" and beat the **** out of him until he comes to his senses and picks "Mary". She's HOT.
 

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Ignore it. You don't even know for sure if he's really cheating on her or just hanging out with this mediocre chick. (Like you said, why would he cheat with her?)

If anything happens, the chances of anyone blaming you are slim to none.

Otherwise, I'd agree that you should take Mary's side if anything does happen.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Serg897

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thanks to all who responded. I guess I will ignore it, becuase Snatch is problably right that there is little chance I will get blamed.

And Slinky speaks the truth. I must really emphazise Mary's hotness.
 

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Never tell someone that they are being cheated on. Its not a pretty picture. 9 times out of 10 they will think you are trying to destroy their relationship, and take the cheater's side.

Doing this would jeopardize your friendships. See no evil, hear no evil, speak no evil.
 
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