"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My little Big problem

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ok, some of u might consider this meanless and funny, but im kinda confusing myself out of this and sure u can help me.

well, its just its my last year at college or school or wutever u call it.... so that means that next year im gona be in university.
so im studying everything that considers physics and maths coz i wana become an engineer in the future..
now girls.....well im kinda worried if i should talk to a girl or not, coz im afraid that would make me not concentrate on my school work enough. coz i dont want to fail this year and its really important to me and im kinda weak and should study alot as teachers say.
plus, dude theres alot of chicks out there.... which one to choose? i cant seem to be able to choose... should i choose the closer to my age..... i suppose ure laughing now...i kno its dumb but there r chicks at skool, other outside skool, sum here n other there... well its kinda hard to describe this confusion coz i like many girls.

hmm thats all! give me sum advices plz...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What do you consider more important. Your studies or your social life?

Yes, there are a lot of women out there. Unfortunately this isn't the humane society where you can walk though and pick which one you want. If you find someone attractive you have to go and talk to them. Get to know them and decide whether or not she could be a potential mate, or a one night stand whatever you're looking to get out of it.
 
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First, focus on your studies. Work hard on weekdays. Sarge and have fun on weekends. Balance both, studies and social life. That's it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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this year at college is so important.
unfortunately i cant give girls my week-end coz most of the ones i like i can only see them at skool
 
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Okay, considering I'm a girl and the only reason I joined was because my friend who used to do this told me that guys need "Advice" so..basically from my point of view, it would be distracting but wouldn't having a girl in your life be more helpful towards your self esteem and how you feel? If she makes you happy, you will be motivated to do better, but that's justt mee =)
 
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