"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My little Big problem

Georgey

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ok, some of u might consider this meanless and funny, but im kinda confusing myself out of this and sure u can help me.

well, its just its my last year at college or school or wutever u call it.... so that means that next year im gona be in university.
so im studying everything that considers physics and maths coz i wana become an engineer in the future..
now girls.....well im kinda worried if i should talk to a girl or not, coz im afraid that would make me not concentrate on my school work enough. coz i dont want to fail this year and its really important to me and im kinda weak and should study alot as teachers say.
plus, dude theres alot of chicks out there.... which one to choose? i cant seem to be able to choose... should i choose the closer to my age..... i suppose ure laughing now...i kno its dumb but there r chicks at skool, other outside skool, sum here n other there... well its kinda hard to describe this confusion coz i like many girls.

hmm thats all! give me sum advices plz...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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donjuanjovi

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What do you consider more important. Your studies or your social life?

Yes, there are a lot of women out there. Unfortunately this isn't the humane society where you can walk though and pick which one you want. If you find someone attractive you have to go and talk to them. Get to know them and decide whether or not she could be a potential mate, or a one night stand whatever you're looking to get out of it.
 

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First, focus on your studies. Work hard on weekdays. Sarge and have fun on weekends. Balance both, studies and social life. That's it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Georgey

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this year at college is so important.
unfortunately i cant give girls my week-end coz most of the ones i like i can only see them at skool
 

CrazyBeautiful

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Okay, considering I'm a girl and the only reason I joined was because my friend who used to do this told me that guys need "Advice" so..basically from my point of view, it would be distracting but wouldn't having a girl in your life be more helpful towards your self esteem and how you feel? If she makes you happy, you will be motivated to do better, but that's justt mee =)
 
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